It is understood that this grandmother's surname is Ma, and she is 41 years old this year. In the eyes of many people, 41 years old is still very young for women, and it is a period of maturity and charm. However, now 41-year-old Ms. Ma is much ahead of her peers in family life.

In real life, many parents have truly felt what " intergenerational " after having children.

When there is the next generation, our parents often love their children more than ourselves. Whether it is grandparents or grandparents, their care and care for their grandchildren are often beyond our imagination.

Not long ago, a expectant grandmother from Wenshan, Yunnan became popular online.

It is understood that this grandmother's surname is Ma, and she is 41 years old this year. In the eyes of many people, 41 years old is still very young for women, and it is a period of maturity and charm. But now, Ms. Ma, 41 years old, is much ahead of her peers in family life. Her youngest daughter is already pregnant, which means that Ms. Ma will be upgraded to "grandmother" soon.

In order to give the baby a wish to be born, Ms. Ma referred to the online tutorial and used pink and white lines to weave a pink and tender cradle for the baby. Ms. Ma admitted that the baby cradle had been weaving for nearly a week.

From the outside, the cradle is pink and cute, and it makes people wonder that the little owner of the cradle may be a little princess. In the

video, Ms. Ma, 41, looks very young due to proper maintenance, and her facial features are delicate, giving people a feeling like an unmarried girl.

is very beautiful and skillful. After this 41-year-old grandmother posted her "work" online, she immediately attracted many netizens' attention.

Some people enviously said that there is such a clever grandmother. After the baby is born, they must be a very happy child. Some people are surprised that Ms. Ma actually became a grandmother at the age of 41. Compared with the reality that many post-80s have not yet gotten married, this obviously belongs to early marriage and early childbirth.

"Discussed each other, so did my mother-in-law. Before my grandson was born, she made all kinds of small clothes and shoes. My husband said that his mother had never cared about him so much before. "

" My 41-year-old daughter was pregnant? Sure enough, I got married early in Yunnan, and there were many post-85s who were not married."

" What a dreamy pink cradle. It's so lucky to have such a skillful grandmother. "

" I gave birth to a child at the age of 28, and I became my grandmother at the age of 41. It's amazing!"

" Generally speaking, women who marry early and have early look older, but this expectant grandmother is not only clever and has a high appearance. It is not an exaggeration to say that she is a girl in her 20s. She is really a winner in her life. "

Although Ms. Ma's "reunion-to-generation marriage" for her grandchildren is enviable, being a grandmother at the age of 41 also made her "early marriage and early childbirth" hotly discussed.

In real life, although many young people insist on late marriage and late childbirth, in ethnic minorities or some remote areas, there are many cases where both parties have just reached the legal marriage age, or even before they have reached the legal marriage age.

Although early marriage and early childbirth have become a tradition in some places, such a concept of marriage and childbirth is not worthy of young people's imitation.

First of all, for women, having children has a "golden period". When the body is not fully developed and matured, giving birth to a baby too early will cause inevitable damage to the body, and various complications are also prone to occur during the delivery process.

Secondly, getting married and having children is a natural thing, but if you want to form a stable family and create a happy family atmosphere for your children, both men and women need to have mature ideas and be mentally prepared to enter the marriage. Don’t choose to get married and have children because of impulse.

Impulsively choose early marriage and early childbirth not only harms oneself and the children, but also adds unnecessary burden to the elderly on both sides.

Finally, although marriage is the free choice of both parties, it is not the end of life. Many people enter into marriage because of curiosity at the age when they should go to school, and thus give up their studies. However, after getting married and having children, they understand that tedious housework and unhappy marriage confine their lives.

Therefore, for young people, they should understand "do the right thing at the right stage" and do not choose the wrong life because of impulse.

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