Good parent-child relationship is the basis of all education.
If you want to obtain a high-quality parent-child relationship, you must pay attention to the ways and methods of love.
The best family education is actually hidden in the "Three Seven Law".
Three-point truth, seven-point empathy
will encounter many problems during the growth process. You might as well feel your child’s emotions first and then solve your child’s problems.
This will invisibly give the child a sense of confidence: "No matter whether I am good or bad, I am accepted and loved."
Children are not machines, and they cannot be run and maintained by just a few cold instructions, but parents need to understand and empathize with him.
When children make mistakes or encounter difficulties, parents can truly enter the children's hearts by less preaching with strong commands and empathy.
Three points of supervision, seven points of accompanying
to accompanying the child’s parent-child time, not real-time corrections and correcting them immediately, but to look at the child, more tolerant and less picky.
gives children a free and easy growth atmosphere, leaving room for free exploration.
A psychologist said: "When getting along with a child, the most important thing is the emotional atmosphere during the process of getting along, whether it is tense or relaxed, negative or pleasant, seen or ignored... This directly determines what the emotional experience of the child is when he is with you."
Good company is not to be arrogant, but to squat down and look at the world with the eyes of a child.
Three points to love yourself and seven points to pay
Parents who give all their strength will easily be unable to control their emotional state and mental health, which will directly affect their children's physical and mental development.
If you want your children to grow up well, parents should be themselves, love themselves, and live well.
Parents love their children, which does not mean that parents should always revolve around their children.
Real education is not to sacrifice all time and energy to accompany children, but to work hard to live the life of parents, work hard to manage their own lives, and be a better self.
Tell your child that because I love you, I must learn to love myself. When I have enough love, then my love will be with you and will not be a burden to you.
Three-point suggestions, seven-point respect
Someone once sighed: "Why did parents help us decide what to do when we grow up from birth, but no one has ever asked, what exactly do we want to do?"
In this world, all love is to aggregation as the ultimate goal. There is only one kind of love for separation, that is, the love of parents for their children.
The true love of parents for success is not to keep their children by their side, but to cultivate their children's independence and let them go.
has a sense of proportion.
Respect children's privacy, listen to their ideas, give them the opportunity to make choices and decisions, reduce self-righteous interference and control, and let love be virtuous cycles continue to nourish children.
The relationship between children and parents is the key to the transformation of children throughout their lives and the basic basis for them to enter society and deal with people in the future.
cares about children, but don’t forget to pay attention to their relationship with children.
Good parent-child relationship is the basis of all education. Only when the parent-child relationship is good can education become simple and effective.
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