After upgrading to their parents, many people automatically become "baby-showing monsters". The normal growth rhythm of children eating, drinking, defecating, urinating, and sleeping is a picture worth recording in their parents' minds. Some parents not only love taking photos, but also love to show off. They directly share their children's life photos on their personal social platforms, hoping to share their children's updates with their relatives and friends.
In theory, it is understandable to show off your babies on your personal platform, but cannot resist the low emotional intelligence performance of some parents. There are several ways to show off their babies, which can easily cause barriers to others, thereby affecting themselves and their children's social circles. Don’t be careless, check it out and try to correct it!
The first type: over-packaging children, showing off wealth in a high-profile way, and opening up a circle of distance
A mother Lingling I met while walking my child, she shares her children's daily life in her circle of friends almost every day.
At the beginning, Lingling was just showing off her children, treating her circle of friends as a diary, and recording her children's growth daily life. But over time, as the number of likes received in the circle of friends increased, Lingling's vanity began to expand. Gradually, she had a "careful viewing" perspective for showing off her children. The children she showed off wearing branded clothes and high-end electronic products and stationery products, and from time to time she had to insert various luxury expenses for taking her children to travel. This over-packaged baby-showing method quickly revealed its disadvantages. Because Lingling found that the mothers in the circle seemed to have reduced their interactions with her. When they made an appointment to walk their babies together, the other party either ignored them or found a reason to refuse.
Lingling didn't understand what the problem was. After inquiring in private, she found out that it was the trouble caused by her "high-profile show off her baby". Several parents who originally had good personal relationships, believed that Lingling's family was rich and there was a gap in life between them. The so-called "birds of a feather flock together, and people were divided into groups", so everyone chose to be out of sight and blocked Lingling's circle of friends. Due to psychological barriers, Lingling was squeezed out of her original mother circle.
The second type: keep complaining, negative energy bodies are avoided
Neighbor Xiaole is a full-time mother. Her husband works in other places all year round, and the old and young people at home need her to take care of. Over time, Xiaole complained. No matter big or small matter, she couldn't help but complain in her circle of friends. For example, the child's homework has not been completed, it's too hard to tutor the child's homework himself, and occasionally criticizes her husband for being the boss.
At the beginning, everyone kindly comforted Xiaole, but Xiaole's negative emotions seemed to be endless. On the most days, she would post dozens of updates one after another, complaining about the child being unsatisfied, her parents-in-law not helping, and her husband not being able to do it, which became a negative energy transmission body in the circle of friends.
Many people subconsciously blocked Xiaole. Xiaole asked me in confusion about this, why no one reads anything I post now?
I am really embarrassed to tell her that although the circle of friends is a personal social platform, the mood of joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness is determined by yourself, readers also have the right to read. Who is willing to be surrounded by negative energy every day? Can't control your complaints, can't control yourself not to watch?
Mothers work hard to take care of their babies, everyone understands this very much, but don’t complain too much, otherwise you will only be disgusted by everyone.
The third type: keep canvasing votes for children's growth. Utilitarianism is too heavy and easily excluded
In the past few days, parents and parents do their best to canvas votes whenever they encounter PK competitions related to children. It is understandable that they canvass votes once or twice, but some have become "professional canvassing voters".
I know a mother Qiaoqiao who often canvasses for her children in her circle of friends. Some of them have formally and informally participated in certain activities, and some have also held them to make up for popularity.Whether it is a major competition or a minor competition, as long as the children participate, Qiaoqiao will encourage people around her to canvass votes for their children. That is the situation that they will not give up until they strive for the first place.
At first, for the sake of face, my friends also wanted to help Qiaoqiao, but I couldn't stand Qiaoqiao's canvassing votes too frequently. every time I assisted was troublesome and time-consuming, so many people simply blocked Qiaoqiao directly in private. But Qiaoqiao seemed to not realize this problem. Seeing that there was no movement in her circle of friends, she simply sent a group to canvass votes. Many people were very annoyed about this, and in the end they could only block Qiaoqiao and look for a few things.
In fact, mothers should not be too serious about canvassing votes for their children. They should be overdrawing their connections and canvassing their children for several informal activities. It is really unnecessary to canvass the votes for their children. While adds trouble to others, they also make themselves owed favors . Why bother?
After having a baby, most families focus on their children, and it is inevitable to show off their children's behavior. My child is just growing up, and parents can't hide their joy and excitement. It is human nature to post a circle to share with relatives and friends, but also needs to pay attention to methods and methods. The above methods of showing off children cannot arouse emotional resonance of others , and will only attract to yourself. Why should you entertain yourself stupidly?
Friends, have you ever had a moment to show off your baby? What is the most disgusting way to show off your baby? Let’s talk together in the comment section! #Telebrity Creation Challenge#
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