After going through hardships just to see you, this is not about two lovers, but about the mother and the baby.
37-year-old Ms. Qian thought ten years ago that she could naturally get pregnant and have children like her mother's generation. So even though her mother urged her to give birth again and again, she was not in a hurry and said she would play for another two years. Wait until you are thirty years old to have a rebirth.
Mother said worriedly that she was so old by then, how could she have a baby? Ms. Qian didn't agree. Anyway, her friends around her didn't give birth, so she was not in a hurry. If she really couldn't do it, she could still do IVF. Besides, she is starting a business now and she really has no intention to consider pregnancy.
If Ms. Qian knew that she would have experienced so much pain for pregnancy later, she would have listened to her mother carefully and put her pregnancy on the agenda as soon as possible.
Don’t want to give birth or dare to give birth. Are women who are anxious about giving birth?
In the past, people would give birth to their children after getting married. Now they have to consider a lot. They should not only consider the cost of having children, but also the work and career of both parties. If economic strength does not allow it or women are under pressure in the workplace, they will delay the issue of giving birth a little later and wait until the time is right.
There are also some young people who are not free when they think about having children and are trapped at home every day. They will be very anxious. is full of anxiety about the future . Of course, there are also some people who simply don’t want to have children, and they feel that their mentality is immature and it is not time to have children.
In short, no matter what, the young couple put the matter of giving birth temporarily on hold. After a few years, it was too late to find that they would not give birth again. They started a new round of anxiety .
"I am 35 years old and I will be pregnant for one year. It would be too late if I don't give birth."
"I have failed twice. This is the third time I have had an IVF. I don't know if it can be successful."
"I used to think it was easy, but I didn't expect it to be so difficult."
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Some people can't wait to get pregnant naturally, and they just want to do IVF as soon as possible. Some people have tried many methods but failed, and finally had to do IVF. IVF has become the last way for these people with fertility anxiety, but is it that easy to do IVF?
What should I go through for IVF?
There are many sperm counts and the discharge method is convenient. You can collect it yourself into a sterile collection tube, but there is no way to collect eggs by yourself.
First of all, there are not enough eggs, and if the complete combination fails, it will be useless. Therefore, taking medicine and injections will increase the number of eggs discharged. Sometimes you can obtain more more than 110 mature eggs .
Take medicine and make women feel nauseous, their stomachs uncomfortable, and the injection is very painful. At the beginning, there may not be any obvious anesthetics. When the anesthetics are over, they will feel pain . After all, such a thick needle is pierced in, and then suck out the eggs, and suck several eggs at once, and it is inevitable that you will feel pain. Some women also do not exhaust or urinate , which is very painful. If one fails, it will be done again.
Secondly, pair the sperm and eggs. As long as the egg is mature, the sperm must be selected well. It must be of good quality to be eugenic and prolific. If sperm is not strong, , none of them pass the test, or carry genetic disease genes, they will eventually need medical help.
was finally implanted with uterus development. It has experienced many difficulties before, and no one can guarantee whether it can grow and develop normally later. still has the probability of fetal discontinuation and miscarriage , so no one can say that they have succeeded until the baby is born. This is also why many women who do test tubes are excited and crying when they see their babies, because only they know all kinds of torture and patience.
What is the difference between test tube babies and children who are naturally conceived? Is health and lifespan the same?
IVF is healthier
In fact, the children born in both ways are very healthy. As long as the genes carried are normal and the parents are healthy, the children will be healthy. However, because you will "choose the best" when doing the test tube, it is better than randomly selected sperm.
However, this does not mean that IVF will definitely be a genius. It is still the same saying that it is related to the genes of parents. If parents are both smart, the child will be better than the younger generation.
Longevity cannot be said to be accurate
IVF is selected after eliminating genetic diseases and various defects. It is very healthy, but whether it can live long depends on more aspects. The later lifestyle should be healthy, stay away from carcinogens and radiation, and have a health awareness. It would be even better if you can have longevity gene .
Although I can wait for time to get pregnant naturally, I want to take a shortcut. Has IVF surgery been abused?
Ms. Qian at the beginning of the article was still silent after preparing for pregnancy for one year. She began to be anxious. Her mother also took her to the hospital for examination and used traditional Chinese medicine, Western medicine, moxibustion and other methods to regulate her body, but she still did not improve. When she was 32 years old, she felt that she could not wait any longer, so she would rather choose the safest way to do test tubes!
When Ms. Qian went to the hospital to consult a doctor, the doctor suggested that she should not rush to have IVF first, and she could try to promote pregnancy. Considering that Ms. Qian is not old and her physical fitness is OK, she should not rush to have IVF.
IVF targets infertile patients . Unless you are still unable to get pregnant until you are 38 years old, you can try to do IVF. Among more than 40 million infertility patients, 15% of people finally have to conceive through test tube technology, which is not a high proportion. However, now a situation has occurred. Many young couples actively require test tube , the reason is that the children born are smarter and can get pregnant faster. The idea of
cannot be found. If possible, it is better to to conceive naturally in . Although assisted reproductive technology is much more mature, it will still bring health risks, especially for female friends, who may face risks such as premature ovarian failure and hypertension during pregnancy in the future.
I hope female friends don’t be too anxious and have a good mood every day. The child is on the way to come, and one day the two will meet. All efforts and efforts are worth it, and the result will not disappoint you.
Reference materials:
[1] Don’t want to give birth or dare to give birth. Can women who are anxious about fertility, save themselves through assisted reproduction? ·Battle Health News.2022-09-19
[2] "Baby, my mother has gone through hardships just to meet you!" Revealing the entire process of IVF cultivation·Southern plus client.2019-05-13
[3]About IVF, all you want to know is here·Health News.2018-07-13
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