When Xiao Lu was pregnant, the entire pregnancy was very relaxed and happy, but it was almost time for delivery. Xiao Lu never thought that the person who delivered him was a male doctor.

A woman’s childbirth seems to be an ordinary thing, but not all women feel that women will encounter such strange things when it comes to giving birth, some of which make it difficult for girls to talk about.

When Xiao Lu was pregnant, the whole pregnancy was very relaxed and happy, but it was almost time for delivery. Xiao Lu never thought that the person who delivered him was a male doctor. When Xiao Lu was about to reach her due date, the fetus in her belly actually broke out early. Xiao Lu and her husband had no time to notify their family, so they quickly came to the hospital with their husband, and then had a checkup.

There is one of them Xiao Lu remembers it very clearly. When Xiao Lu was still confused by the pain, a male doctor came over and checked Xiao Lu. At that time, Xiao Lu might have been a little confused. When the male doctor finally reached into his lower body for a uterine examination, he saw that Xiao Lu had a few fingers open, the male doctor's operation actually made Xiao Lu have a "physiological reaction" and he wanted to go to the toilet.

At that time, Xiao Lu wanted to hold it back, but after enduring it for a long time, he still couldn't help it. Finally, he got a trick on the male doctor. At that time, the male doctor seemed to see Xiao Lu's reaction and said to Xiao Lu directly: "It doesn't matter, this is all very normal. You don't have to hold it in, otherwise it will be bad for the fetus in your belly." The more Xiao Lu heard the male doctor say this, the more shameful Xiao Lu felt. In this way, Xiao Lu really wanted to find a crack in the ground to get into it.

In fact, it is not just Xiao Lu that reacts like this. Many mothers will have such unexpected things when giving birth. Some mothers are even well prepared for delivery, but they still don’t expect that they will fall into this. In fact, some things women really need to be mentally prepared before giving birth, so as to avoid the need for unnecessary psychological impact on the mother after it happens.

Women will meet male doctors when giving birth. Some women are not opposed to male doctors, but some women cannot accept it. This has led to many women approaching delivery and are still asking for a change of doctors at critical moments in their lives. But sometimes the staff in the hospital are nervous, and giving birth is not a picky item. Whoever wants to deliver the baby is waiting for you. So women should prepare mentally in advance before giving birth, especially for husbands, to avoid the mother’s awkwardness when giving birth.

Women will also encounter internal examination problems when giving birth. Of course, this situation is for mothers who are preparing to give birth naturally. Sometimes when the doctor gives mothers internal examinations, the pain is self-evident. But the most important thing is that many mothers will have some physiological reactions during internal examinations of doctors, such as incontinence. Mothers must calm their mindset. Even if they have incontinence, it doesn’t matter. This is a normal phenomenon. Mothers must not have too strong psychological burden.

In addition to having children, women will encounter some embarrassing scenes before giving birth, but in fact they will also encounter them during giving birth. For example, some mothers who have natural birth experience many feces incontinence during delivery. Some mothers cannot accept this and feel particularly embarrassed. So some mothers choose to hold back when giving birth. In fact, this situation is particularly bad, because the mother holds not only the fetus in her stomach, but also the fetus in her stomach. The longer the mother holds it, the greater the impact on the fetus in her stomach. So when mothers feel like they want to defecate, they must release themselves and not hold them in.

Women will also encounter skin preparation during childbirth. Of course, this is for mothers who are preparing for caesarean section, they generally do not need to have natural births. However, some mothers are also more sensitive, and they don’t know that they have to shave off their pubic hair when giving birth, so when the nurse is doing it for them, the mother is particularly embarrassed. In fact, there is no need. The nurse has long been used to this kind of thing and is not embarrassed to be embarrassed. Shaving the pubic hair is also responsible for the fetus in the belly, reducing the chance of infection during surgery.Therefore, women should still do some homework before giving birth. If they do not do their homework thoroughly, embarrassing things will easily occur during giving birth. Of course, having children is not just a mother.宝妈没有做到位的，作为老公一定要替宝妈想到，这样当宝妈遇到问题的时候，老公还能宽慰一下宝妈的心情。

In addition, if the husband is convenient during the delivery process, the mother must be with her mother as much as possible, so that the mother can focus all her energy on giving birth, and the child will be born smoothly.而且如果老公陪在身边的话，面对困难和尴尬也有人一起分担，宝妈的心理负担也就没有那么重，对产妇心理上也是一种缓解。