A good native family has a huge impact on a child's life.
A good native family plays an important leading role in the future of children.
When the child grows up, no matter what he does, with the encouragement and support of his parents, his path will become wider and more confident in himself.
On the contrary, growing up in an unfortunate native family, it is difficult for children to make breakthroughs and grow up in their lives.
The lack of cognition among parents undoubtedly puts a shackle on their children's lives and makes them breathless.
Yesterday, I chatted with a colleague, and the colleague quarreled with my mother again because her salary is low now and she saves too little money every month, so her mother said it would be better to go to work in the factory.
get a high salary and save more money every month.
Although she made little money this year, she has not even spent 3,000 yuan so far, and all the remaining money has been saved.
But her mother still thinks that she saves too little money and keeps saving money.
She said: "I understand the hard work of my mother and father, but it doesn't mean that I have to save money all the time. If I don't spend money, why should I always impose her ideas on me.
Since I think the salary in the factory is high, what do I have to do when I take the teaching exam?
I didn't spend money randomly, why did I keep saving money? Money is made, not saved?"
Her mother is not well educated, but she has been working hard to make money. She knows the difficulty and hardship of her mother.
But she can't stand her mother's constant restrictions on everything and cannot use her cognition to interfere with her life.
also said that girls as old as her are married, but she still accomplished nothing and did nothing.
She said she had nothing and was not financially independent, so what qualifications are there to get into marriage?
Her mother's perception made her feel helpless. She said that she really didn't know what to say except silence.
The impact of parents' cognition on their children will accompany them throughout their lives.
Cognitive visionary parents play a lubricant role in their children's lives.
will lead children to a better life direction.
Children can know early what they want, how to do it, and how to make their lives have a clearer plan.
They will not over-interfere in their children's lives. What children want to do, they will encourage their children and give them the greatest support.
When children are confused, they will also enlighten their children at any time to guide them, so that their future path will be clearer.
It is not scary to be poor, what is scary is the cognitive gap, which is enough to open a huge gap between a child's life and his peers.
lack of cognition is not the fault of parents, but you must not interfere too much in your children's life, especially when you can't help them.
Give the child a chance and let him let go of his hands and fight!
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