A full-time mother is taking care of her children at home and taking care of her family's food, drink, defecation and urination. Maybe when she first went back, the man was still grateful.
But over time, trivial housework and children will waste a woman's energy.
In their life circle, they wash laundry, buy vegetables, cook, and cook every day, milk powder, bottles, and diapers.
Because there is no salary at home, it will be very difficult to support a home by relying on a man alone.
But the wife understands that it is not easy for men to work outside, and they save money at home.
I took on all the housework and taking care of the children alone, after a long time.
everything a woman does, men take it for granted, and watch women become more and more stingy and frugal.
After a long time, you will look down on her in all kinds of ways. Some men will feel that the women outside are all glamorous.
When I go home and see my wife, I don’t like her anyway, and I dislike her how I can’t dress up.
The wife asked him for living expenses, but she was disliked that she would not live frugality. She also said that she was working outside every day and was so tired that she was dying.
Annoyed women all day long, and they knew that they asked him for money. That day, Xiao Li returned home.
My wife had prepared supper. He and his mother sat on the table and prepared to have a meal. When they saw that his wife had only bought a small little durian.
accused my wife of saying that if you buy a fruit, you don’t know how to buy more, so a small amount is enough for who to eat.
I will give you 3,000 yuan a month to live in. Isn’t it enough? How do you spend it?
At this time, the mother-in-law saw that her son was picky and agreed, yes, my son gave you so much money in a month.
How do you spend it! Don't buy things after you don't know how to buy things. My daughter-in-law felt a little aggrieved when she heard this.
After eating, my mother took her son out to buy things. After she arrived at the supermarket, my mother chose snacks that her grandson liked.
took two large bags and put them in the cart, and told his son, "This is what your son likes to eat often, these two bags cost 50 yuan."
took two more bottles of shampoo and shower gel , put them in the cart, and told my son that it costs 100 yuan to use these 2 bottles per month.
said that, and went to the refrigerator again, took a large bag of ribs and pork, saying that this was our amount for a week, and these were more than 80 yuan.
Then I walked to the vegetable area and bought a few vegetables for a few dozen yuan. Later, I arrived at the clothing area.
My mother pointed to a piece of clothing and said to her son, "The material of this clothing is good and soft, and your son's clothes have become smaller again." It’s impossible not to buy
. The children’s clothes are about 100 yuan, and they spent nearly 400 yuan when they went out.
At this time, my mother said to her son again, do you think the family’s food and drink does not require money!
A small dot of durian costs more than 100, and the big ones cost two or three hundred. After hearing this, my son was shocked by Boss Zhang.
This 400 yuan is just a week's food expense, and it will be almost 2,000 yuan per month.
and your son’s milk powder and diapers. Not to mention that the child is sick, that 3,000 yuan is not enough.
The clothes we usually wear are not blown by the strong wind, your wife usually saves money at home.
Her own clothes have been washed and still worn. She always buys a few of them for us every time, and she can't bear to buy them for herself.
You only give a few thousand yuan a month, and the family’s expenses must be taken care of. You only know that you have worked hard.
Your wife works at home, and she is busy every day like a top. She is not without a job, but who washes the clothes you wear at work every day.
Who cooks the meals he eats, who mopps the clean floor, no one cares about the child, will he grow up by himself?
It’s not that a woman has no job, but she just does the work she has done for her family and no one pays her salary.
If you want to calculate the work done by a full-time mother at home and get the salary on the market, you probably can't afford it at all.
After listening to my mother's words, my son also realized his mistake. After returning home, he apologized to his wife and admitted his mistake.
My wife smiled and said, "It's all a family, I know it's not easy for you to be outside, and I have never been concerned about you."
Later, after the man went home every day, he took the initiative to help with housework, and the relationship and life of the couple became better and better.
Don’t underestimate a family. If a woman’s efforts are not available, she will take on everything at home.
A man can still do it, so easy, can he go to work outside? A good man not only understands his own suffering.
will also think from the perspective of others and understand your wife. It is not easy to handle housework and know how to actively share housework.
Only incompetent men not only cannot give their wife a life, but also always dislike their wife and are not beautiful enough if they don’t know how to dress up.
Beautiful women are all made of high-end cosmetics, and elegant women are made of men.
If a man from a family can have the ability to ask a nanny to take care of his children, and ask a chef to cook.
Give enough money and time to let your wife beautify and dress up. I believe that your wife will be as beautiful as a flower.
A woman’s mental outlook directly reflects a man’s ability to make money. The more capable a man is, the more he knows how to respect his wife.
Author: Sister Jenny!
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