The so-called "rich support" is not just the literal meaning of money support, but includes money, care, and care...
People always say that girls need to be rich, and some parents think that it is enough to give their children enough financial needs. They are busy with work every day and do not care about their children's physical and mental health at all.
In fact, parents don’t understand what their children’s inner desire is, and do something meaningless in the name of good for their children.
Parents always have excuses, saying that it is the first time to be a father and a mother, and it is inevitable that they will do something wrong, but this cannot be used as an excuse for a lifetime. Both parents and children should constantly learn how to get along with each other and correct mistakes.
Want to provide the best for your children and don’t want your children to lose at the starting line. This is the greatest wish of parents, but to raise their children with wealth is not to spend money, but to do these things:
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The best way to raise children is to be friends with children. Don’t always teach your children a lesson with elders
As children grow up, some will gradually become more and more unfamiliar with their parents because they are unwilling to communicate with their parents.
Parents always criticize what they do and disrespect their ideas as elders. This leads to the child burying everything in his heart and having to talk to his friends.
If parents want to raise their children with wealth, they should first get along with their children as equals. When they are friends, rather than being arrogant, pointing in their ideas, they can guide them, but they cannot dominate their lives.
Observation found that those optimistic and confident children are often very harmonious in their families. Their ideas will be supported by their parents. They are not afraid of failure and are willing to talk to their parents and listen to their parents’ opinions.
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The best wealth-raising is to give enough children to accompany them
Many parents are busy all day long in order to provide their children with the best life. The children lack the company of their parents since childhood. To them, parents seem to be just an ATM, and they don’t give anything except money.
Sometimes they will make some mistakes on purpose and want to attract the attention of their parents, but they often fail.
Children no longer expect their parents' company and begin to squander and use material to satisfy their lack of love in their hearts. Parents such as
realize this and when they want to make up for their children, their children have become unfamiliar with them, and parents just use more money to make up for their children, so that they can feel better in their hearts and relieve their guilt.
In fact, for children, they do not expect the best, they just want the company of their parents. When they see others picking up after school and taking them to the amusement park on weekends, they will be full of envy. Therefore, the best way to raise wealth is to give enough companionship to children and care about their physical and mental health development.
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The best way to raise a wealth is to encourage education. Don’t compare children with other people’s children
When we were young, we were most afraid of hearing parents mention “other’s children”, as if everyone had a child from someone else’s children in their childhood. The child had excellent grades and was polite to listen to their parents’ words…
Parents always compare their children with other people’s children, saying that the children are useless, which caused a heavy blow to the children’s heart. Let children develop self-doubt and become more and more inferior.
Please think more when comparing your child with other people's children, the child does not compare his parents with other people's parents.
Parents are the first parents, but children are also the first time they are children. Think from the perspective of others and have more understanding and understanding.
In fact, children's ideas are very simple. Sometimes they will be happy all day after receiving a praise from their parents.
So parents should not be stingy with compliments on their children. Encouraging education can enhance their children's confidence and make them full of energy in doing things.
If parents belittle their children to nothing, then they will feel that even the people they are closest to don’t like themselves like this. Then no one in the world should like them, which will cause psychological shadows on their children.
Summary:
In the process of getting along with children, both parents and children need to make continuous progress and understand each other.
People with happy childhood heal their lives with childhood, and people with misfortune in childhood heal their childhood with lifetime.
Because I lived a happy childhood, when I encountered setbacks in the future, I gritted my teeth and felt that everything could pass, and good luck would eventually come.
And people who are unfortunate in childhood, even if they live a good life later, they can't help but want to travel back and hug themselves in their past lives when they think of their childhood experiences.
If you want to raise children with wealth, you must take into account all aspects of the children and be responsible to your children. Some people think that getting married and having children is a task, and completing these lives is considered complete. This idea is very absurd and irresponsible to your children.
Since children have brought their children to this world, we must take care of their growth and make them feel that it is great to come to this world, rather than regret coming. Slowly lead your children to understand the world, and you will learn a lot from it.
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