People always understand many truths, but they still can't live a good life. Everyone understands the sentence
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But why?
Wang Yangming talks about "integration of knowledge and action", and many people will know if they have a deep understanding.
knows and understands many principles, but they have not done it or practiced it.
Some people don’t understand the truth, so they just do it stupidly.
neither achieved good results.
So we talk about the unity of knowledge and action to achieve a better state.
For example, in marriage, two people with hot personalities always like to quarrel frequently, and they must quarrel to the death, you win and lose. In fact, do you think it is necessary?
Once the war is burned, it will be difficult to extinguish it, so one side must be tolerant and concessions, and to show weakness and stop the situation, so big things will turn into small things.
Also, in parent-child relationships, if parents are always right in front of their children, always accusing them of being wrong, and the children are stupid and stupid, then the children will lose confidence and have no desire to talk to you.
The child was labeled, and he was not confident and could not be happy. Is the result of
good for parents? It should be that the gain is not worth the loss.
So in the parent-child relationship, when communicating with children, or tutoring children to study, parents know how to properly demonstrate their weaknesses, even if they pretend that they don’t understand, it’s good to let their children be teachers.
asked him to explain the problem to us, which will improve the child's self-confidence and he will take his homework seriously. Because he wants to explain it to adults, he will check it very carefully and teach it very carefully, and the child will become more and more interested in learning.
This is the function of the opposite direction. The self-confidence in giving birth gives children more opportunities to show themselves, and adults should show weakness appropriately. You will find that this is much better than scolding children. And the children will gradually become very self-conscious.
Whether it is children or adults, everyone hopes to be recognized and praised by others in their hearts. If you have been criticized by others, then what confidence can you have?
Many times, it is actually very hurtful to have to stand on the commanding heights to criticize others and find a kind of glory and satisfaction in one's heart.
If we show weakness and fulfill others' confidence, and then find a way to go, you will find that the atmosphere between each other has been much more eased, and the problem is naturally solved.
In life, it is not the east wind that presses the west wind, nor the west wind that presses the east wind, nor is it that you live to the death, you win and I lose.
Life needs to understand each other, cooperate with each other, and more importantly, to achieve each other.
Your lover is happy, and you will be happy too.
Happy children, you will be happy too.
Can you do it? Would you like to learn and use this method? I hope you can get better results in marriage, family and parent-child education.
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