This sensitivity of children will be more obvious when they encounter obstacles. In most cases, children's temper is likely to be caused by this sensitivity. Maria Montessori gives us many such examples.
One day, a 6-month-old girl stayed in a room, a lady walked in and placed a parasol on the table. The little girl began to become uneasy. She looked at the umbrella for a while, and then started crying. The lady thought she wanted the umbrella, so she picked it up and smiled and brought it to her. But the little girl pushed the umbrella aside and continued to cry. The lady tried to comfort the little girl, but it was useless and she became even more restless.
What can I do to make the girl stop crying?
At this moment, the mother with psychological insight took the umbrella from the table and put it in another room. The little girl immediately calmed down. It turned out that the reason why she was upset was that the woman placed the umbrella on the table, and the misplaced item seriously disrupted the child's memory of the order of placement of items.
The same thing happened to a slightly older child: a team of travelers went out to play together, and a young lady in the team was with a 1 and a half years old child. After a while, the child was so tired that he couldn't walk anymore. The mother picked him up and continued walking. Mom was walking hot and tired, so she stopped, took off her coat, and put the clothes on her arm. After reducing the burden, she picked up the child again. But at this time the child began to cry, and the crying became louder and louder. The mother tried every means to calm the child, but it was useless. She was exhausted and became uneasy. The tourists who were traveling with them also became worried about the mother and son, and gave their mother some help. They sometimes change people to hold the child, but the child becomes even more uneasy, and everyone praises and encourages him, but this makes the situation worse and worse. The mother had no choice but to take the child back. But at this moment, the child has begun to become hysterical and seems to have reached a desperate situation.
At this time, someone suggested that my mother put on her coat again. The mother seemed very confused, but she still accepted the suggestion. The child immediately calmed down. His tears and anxiety disappeared, and he kept saying, "Clothes...Shoulders..." The child means "your clothes are on your body." Yes, mom should wear clothes on her body. The boy smiled "You finally understand me" and stretched out his arms to his mother.
Children's order sensitivity makes them feel like they are stimulated and received instructions for action when they see something in disorder. But the meaning of this sensitivity is not only that, but the sense of order is a spiritual need, and when it is satisfied, it will also bring happiness to children. The sense of order obtained from childhood makes them notice the location of each item in the environment, and they remember the location of each item. This is actually a manifestation of a person being able to adapt to the environment and dominate the environment in all aspects of details. A person can walk around with his eyes closed and reach out to get whatever he wants. Only in this way can he feel calm and happy, and his mind can be in harmony with the environment.
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