article | Liangzi
In the latest plot of " exam ", 5 college entrance examination candidates from different families began to complain about all kinds of dissatisfaction in the group again.
Wu Jiajun complained: "The Nth time I had a breakdown with my parents," Tian Wenwen, who was raised by her parents, replied: "It's better than my mother doesn't care about me at all."
Academic master Zhou Bowen, who has a "waste father", said: "It's better than me to care about my father."
In fact, compared with the two "extreme situations" of Wu Jiajun and Tian Wenwen, as well as Gao Mingyu, who has no father and mother, and Pan Xiaoxuan, who has divorced parents from various families, Zhou Bowen is really the happiest.
Zhou Bowen's father and mother are all around him. His mother cares about him and doesn't care too much. Everything is just right.
And his "bad dad" Zhou Meiren, apart from playing games and not working, has no other problems. He is afraid of his son, as if he is a "son" and Zhou Bowen is a "dad".
I believe many people are like me. I don’t understand Zhou Bowen’s mother. She is obviously very hardworking and needs help from the restaurant she runs, but why does she still indulge her husband to be idle and lazy, and support him to be a "waste"?
It was not until Zhou Meiren saw her pick up her wife's hand and kissed her, and asked her to help her draw the game equipment. After the draw, she excitedly hugged her wife and kissed her. She was seen by her son and teammates, and she was still very arrogant after she found out that she understood the fundamental reason why Zhou Bowen's mother indulged her husband.
"Waste" Zhou Meiren
I have to say that Wang Xiao really brought Zhou Meiren to life!
A 40-year-old middle-aged man wears pajamas all day long and has no laces. He is not only eating and sleeping, but also sitting in front of the computer and playing games with headphones. He is excited from time to time and shouting and dancing.
is such a man with healthy limbs, who is so lazy that he is not as good as a child:
When his wife prepares the meal, he will not take the initiative to serve him; when his wife changes the light bulb alone, he can't bear to get up to help; when it's sunrise, he doesn't want to get up, and he lies on his wife's lap to act coquettishly. After his wife coaxes him, he has to heat up the meal for him.
The key is that my son is about to take the college entrance examination. Zhou Meiren not only doesn’t care, but also plays games with her computer all day long.
Dad doesn't care about his son, but his son cares about his father. Zhou Bowen first changed Zhou Meiren's game account and then removed the computer host.
This tossing almost killed Zhou Meiren. He became completely paralyzed! He pestered his wife to plead for his son all day and night.
Zhou Meiren, where is this husband and father? It is clearly "son".
No wonder everyone says that Zhou Bowen's mother "married a son and gave birth to a father". Nothing is more appropriate than this description!
"Pampering your husband as your son" Zhou's mother
In fact, if Zhou Bowen's mother did not spoil her husband, Zhou Meiren's "waste life" would not be so comfortable and comfortable.
When Zhou Bowen used his game account to threaten his father to work for his mother, his mother's strengths of "protecting her baby" began to show off.
For example, Zhou Bowen asked his father to get up early and accompany his mother to the vegetable market to purchase. Zhou Meiren couldn't get up any longer. When Zhou Bowen used his trick, Zhou's mother stopped him:
to let him adapt slowly.
Finally arrived at the vegetable market, Zhou Meiren was so sleepy that she couldn't open her eyes. Zhou's mother asked him to sleep in the car, went to buy and move the goods by herself, and on the way back, she let Zhou Meiren go to play with her friends, and then lied to her son that Zhou Meiren had done a lot of work.
week mother treats her husband, no matter how she looks like her parents spoil their children.
There is another scene that makes people laugh endlessly when they see it.
Zhou's mother asked Zhou Meiren to have dinner. Seeing that there was no movement for a long time, she ran to the bedroom to find him. Zhou Meiren was lying on the bed, and Zhou's mother said in his ear that she had made shredded pork noodles with dried bamboo shoots and pork.
Zhou Meiren said she couldn't eat it and felt uncomfortable. Zhou's mother quickly tapped his forehead. There was no problem. Zhou's mother sat beside her and stroked his head. In fact, he just wanted to play games.
Look again, Zhou Meiren turned over and lay on his wife's lap and acted coquettishly. In addition to being a little larger and older, he was a very "baby". Zhou's mother was happy to see her husband's lazy appearance.
"Related to Zhou Meiren"
Zhou's mother saw her husband's mind. He just wanted a game account and a computer, so she persuaded Zhou Bowen. Zhou Bowen was unable to care about this father who "can't support the mud" and let him fend for himself.
Zhou Bowen advised his mother to divorce his father, but his mother insisted that he could not abandon Zhou Meiren because he did not have the ability to live independently.
This made Zhou Bowen even more confused. What is the purpose of marrying his mother?
Zhou Bowen advised his mother to fail to get a divorce, so he had to advise his mother to stop his father's pocket money and not be so tolerant of him anymore, so that he could be kept in obediently.
But my mother still didn't want to, because she married Zhou Meiren to live a life, not to make him obey him.
Zhou Bowen was even more puzzled. What did my mother like when she married such a man?
Zhou's mother then revealed the secret. In fact, Zhou Meiren was not like this before. He was the most famous bricklayer in all corners of the countryside. He was famous as a teenager.
Later, because Zhou's mother wanted to take her son to school in the city, she secretly sold her land and property. Zhou Meiren had no choice but to work in the city, but he couldn't communicate with others. She couldn't do it after changing to several decoration teams, so she had to give up.
Zhou Meiren was helping in the restaurant at home, but she couldn't do anything well, so Zhou's mother refused to let him do whatever she wanted, and Zhou's mother took on the responsibility of supporting her family alone.
Perhaps it was Zhou's mother who felt that she owed her husband because she asked to come to the city, which ruined Zhou Meiren's career, so she would not let him make any sacrifices for the rest of her life.
But this is not the fundamental reason why Zhou's mother indulged her husband. After all, the children are their common ones. Zhou Meiren blamed him for not finding a job, and Zhou's mother asked to move to the city to give her son a better education.
The root cause of "Zhou's mother indulging Zhou Meiren"
In fact, the root cause of Zhou's mother indulging Zhou Meiren to be lazy and eat, there are only two words - love.
If the mother of Zhou had no love for her husband, she would not have tolerated him for more than ten years. No matter how good a person has a good temper, she would not be as happy as her all day, and would be extremely gentle to her husband and son.
The state of a woman after marriage depends largely on how her husband treats her. If there is a moody and bad temper, then the woman will become a resentful woman.
, Zhou's mother is relaxed and at ease, which is unpretentious. After all, her eyes will not lie, and her worries with Zhou Meiren will not lie. If she has no love in her heart, she will not be willing to get close to her partner at all.
The reason why Zhou Bowen's mother loves Zhou Meiren very much is because Zhou Meiren also loves her wife very much, and Zhou Meiren can bring her spiritual pleasure.
The Zhou family has only one son, who is good at grades and sensible, and does not need parents to worry about them at all. Then the only thing Zhou’s mother has to do is provide logistical support for her son, and her restaurant is enough to make the family live without worries.
So, as long as there is no family member to get sick, Zhou’s mother can be said to have no pressure on life; as long as the family atmosphere is harmonious and the family relationship is harmonious, Zhou’s mother will have no psychological burden.
So Zhou's mother doesn't need her husband to make money for her. As long as her husband is in good health, she will be satisfied. The most important thing is that Zhou Meiren has a good temper.
It is not because Zhou Meiren doesn’t work and feels guilty, but because of love.
In fact, good temper has nothing to do with whether a person is capable or not. Some capable men in life are still very irritable; some men who are inappropriate in eating, drinking, gamble and other things, and they are still cruel to their wives.
So, compared with those men, Zhou Meiren looks too cute.
No matter how his son treats him, he will not lose his temper. Whether changing the game password, dismantling the host, or reporting him to gather together to play cards, he always looks like a "good boy", holding the computer and being depressed, unable to say a single bad thing.
Zhou Meiren will not vent his anger on his wife. His good temper and good emotions that have been going on for decades are really rare!
This is also an important reason why Zhou Bowen can grow into a sunny and simple and mentally healthy big boy.
Zhou Meiren is like a child who makes a mistake in front of her son, and dare not speak out;
In front of her wife, she is like a child who is arrogant and arrogant, and she can only act coquettishly and act coquettishly.
This is not a failure, but because of love. This is the fundamental reason why Bowen’s mother spoiled Zhou Meiren.
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