Author: Ring the Bell Following the thrilling last time: I didn’t expect that kindergarten would also have an “interview”. Little Gulu, who just turned 3 years old, had his first [home visit] in his life. In the middle of last week, when I received the notification call from my t

Author: Ring the Bell

Following the thrilling last time: I didn’t expect that kindergarten would also have an “interview”.

Little Gulu, who just turned 3 years old, had his first [home visit] in his life.

In the middle of last week, when I received a notification call from the teacher, I didn’t come back to my senses for a long time:

What a distant word. Home visit? I remember the last time I visited my home was in elementary school.

At that time, the head teacher made a special trip to my house by car to complain to my parents. She just sat down on my sofa, wiped her sweat, and before she had a chance to drink water, she started accusing me of numerous crimes like pouring beans through a bamboo tube.

As I listened, my parents’ expressions changed from smiles to solemn expressions, then to sullenness, and finally to rage. Upon seeing this, the teacher stood up and left with great satisfaction.

As soon as the teacher went out, I was beaten. That day, the voice-activated lights in the entire building lit up for me.

Memories came to me in a surge, and the innate fear of teachers was also aroused in my mind again.

I was so anxious at home that I didn’t even think about school starting yet. What was going on during this home visit?

At this time, in the WeChat group, mothers from the community who also received the home visit notification call also came to ask: What should I prepare for the home visit? Does anyone know?

It turns out that some people are not clear about the process, and I am not alone. I immediately replied confidently:

fruit bar ?

It was my first home visit as a parent, and I decided to start preparations two days in advance.

(I say it’s preparation, but I don’t know how to prepare it. After all, I don’t even know the process, so just pay more attention consciously.)

First of all, the home should not be too dirty, otherwise the teacher’s first impression will be bad. But we can’t be too neat, because my son is a bit sloppy, lest the teacher think we are hypocritical.

Secondly, you definitely need fruits to make tea and water. Although the teacher is busy visiting so many households, he may not have time to eat them, but isn’t this kind of thing placed there for the guests to see? It seems that our family respects teachers.

Thirdly, I have to start classes for my son in advance, and I cannot let him drop out temporarily.


So the night before the home visit, when I finished bathing and dressing little Gulu, I saw that his pajamas were yellow, and I thought of the two teachers [Teacher Huang and Teacher Tiantian] who called me to inform and confirm. I started to give him good advice.

"Baby, three teachers will come to our house tomorrow to play."

"What are they doing here?"

"Come to see you and chat with you."

"What are they talking to me about?"

"Talk about you going to kindergarten Love, because they are all kindergarten teachers. So look, what color are your pants? "

" Yes, so they will come tomorrow. One of the teachers is called Teacher Huang. Is the candy you usually eat sweet? "

" So there is another teacher called Teacher Tiantian.There are three teachers in total. I don’t know the name of the other teacher’s mother. Can you say hello to them tomorrow? "

" OK! "

Seeing that he answered the questions so actively, I think it should be about the same?

Unexpectedly, the next day, my son's improvisation completely shocked everyone!

The home visit came on Sunday.

The teacher said we would arrive at around 9 o'clock. I set an alarm for 8:30, thinking about getting up and tidying up, at least put on light makeup and change into pajamas. The first meeting should not be too casual.

8:40, my whole head was soaked in the sink. 8:42, I washed away the bubbles on my head. 8:45, I held the hair dryer and dried half of it. l0

I vaguely heard the door ringing.

I turned my head like Pan Zhoudan and looked outside with my upper body. I saw my aunt standing at the door with an innocent look on her face. Me: "Teacher is here..." The three female teachers stood at the door with smiles.

My whole body froze in my heart. "No way" "It was agreed to be at 9 o'clock." "I haven't even finished drying my hair yet" and "I haven't even put on my makeup yet"!

It was too late and it was too late. I shouted, "Wait a minute, I'll be here soon!" I immediately rushed into the bedroom and opened the bathroom door. Yan Zu was holding a roll. Toilet paper, sitting on horse Tongshang was startled and looked at me.

I panicked:

"The teacher is here, husband, hurry up, the teacher is here!" "

He looked at me, his expression gradually calmed down:

Why don't you close the toilet door first?

I was shocked.

What kind of man did I have to face alone? What kind of man did I marry? I woke you up at 8:30 and the first thing you did when you got up was to go. Shit!

I returned to the living room like a wandering soul, and the three teachers were still standing outside the door. Then I woke up from a dream and quickly found slippers for them.

I guessed the result but missed the beginning. I never expected it. I searched for a long time and only found two pairs of slippers. l7

When I was numb and squatting on the ground, looking around for a pair of slippers to fall from the sky, I found that the teacher couldn't wait any longer. He put on his shoe covers and walked in.

I could only follow him like a quail. We sat on the sofa.

The teacher was very kind. They probably saw my nervousness, so they asked me to fill out a form first and gave me a chance to breathe. 7

I looked at it and saw that it was a basic assessment form for new students. For example, I asked whether Little Gulu was picky about food, whether he could go to the toilet independently, whether he could eat by himself, whether he had a nap habit, his personality traits, etc.

I filled in all questions about personality. feature Well, I hesitated.

I like to chase girls but I don’t like boys. What kind of personality does it have?

I will be irritable and yell at you when others deny me. , what kind of character is that?

He may take action when someone robs him of toys.

Damn it, none of these look like advantages! After racking my brains, I finally filled in two words: lively. After thinking about it, I added two more words: stubborn.

filled out the form, and the teacher chatted with me for a few words as usual.For example, a child must have some separation anxiety when he first enters kindergarten. Parents should help him get through it. The kindergarten teacher will correct the child's living habits. If the child does not adapt to it, he will be a little resistant. Parents should be more considerate and explain the child's needs for kindergarten. That’s about it for some items and precautions.

After a pleasant chat, the teacher got up. I was overjoyed and was wondering if the home visit was over?

As a result, she made a request with a smile: Little Gulu’s mother, come let’s call the father and the baby, and let’s take a group photo together!

Amidst the lightning and thunder, I remembered that I had washed half of my hair and my face was completely bare.

The corners of my mouth twitched a little, but how could I refuse what the teacher said?

I could only hold the child and pull Yanzu to sit down on the sofa opposite. Facing the mobile phone lens raised in front of me, I gave a stiff smile.

I hope this photo is just kept as a souvenir by the teacher, because although I am not a real idol, I have a bit of extra idol baggage.

After taking the photos, the home visit ended. I looked at my phone and saw that only 15 minutes had passed, and I was breaking out in a cold sweat. The seconds seemed like years.

But fortunately, at least we brought out fruit - a mother in the group said that she had something to do when she went out in the morning, and the teacher had already arrived when she came home. When she opened the door, she found her husband, mother-in-law and teachers looking at each other in confusion, and there was nothing on the table. No.

ps: When everyone took a group photo at the end, the teacher stood next to little Gulu and introduced himself as Teacher Tiantian! My son suddenly said: Teacher Tiantian, you are as sweet as the candy I eat!

Everyone laughed happily.

I was also laughing, and I patted my thigh silently: What a good boy, your mouth is so sweet, your mother really didn’t teach you this in vain!

After the teachers all left, Little Gulu muttered again:

Mom, that Teacher Huang, should be as yellow as my pajamas last night, right?

... I nodded, thinking that it was a good thing I didn't say this just now, it was so dangerous.

In short, little Gulu’s first home visit in his life passed without any danger.

Finally, let me show you the graduation photo of Little Gulu’s early childhood education class. Isn’t it very cute!

There are also ID photos taken for him in order to enter the park. My dad said that this photo is very similar to his childhood.

Next, we are waiting for the official start of school tomorrow morning!

About the author: Ring the bell, a Changsha Sagittarius woman, a writer of wild emotions. New book "Girl, your life is too soft"