In this faster-paced era, as parents, we should not think of staying at home and taking care of our children. After all, the loss of a job means that our economic income will decrease, and the whole family may fall into a situation where material things are worse than others. But for children, they can't think of these things. As long as they can have their mother's company, it will be their sunny day. Because of this, many children will ask their parents: "Why do you have to go to work? Just accompany me at home..."
I don't know how parents answer this question when facing children?
Netizen Du Xiqian: I said my mother wants to earn money for you to buy delicious food and take you out to play.
Netizen equipment recycling is not capped: I directly answered, your mother and I don’t work, so you eat and drink whatever you eat.
Netizen Erbao's mother: How can you have new friends without learning? How can people look down on it? If you don't learn, you will be eliminated by society in the future. Take your current class as an example. The good students in your class, whether they are classmates or teachers, are very nice to them, right? This is respect. On the contrary, some students who are not good at studying, will they receive the same courtesy even if they have good quality? Of course not, this is the reason for work. Only by constantly discovering and solving problems in work can we further promote our learning of new knowledge and entering new fields.
Looking at the representatives of the above netizens’ parents’ speeches, have you also noticed the different values behind this?
Work is to make money and allow us to have a better life. This is inevitable and certainly, but if we as parents can rise to a higher level of thinking and introduce the importance of work to our children, then the children's views will also change. A seemingly unintentional sentence can change children's thinking about themselves, society and the times. Greatly improve the child's pattern.
If a parent thinks that work is happy and passionate, then their children will do their best in the learning process and will also feel that learning is a happy thing. Some children who are more self-disciplined in their studies and life usually have a parent who is active and hard-working.
And a parent who lets children know that work is important and loving children is more important will also let children feel the enthusiasm and warmth of life.
On the contrary, you get up early and work late, originally for the sake of your children to live a better life, but the children feel that you don’t love him enough, making them lose the feeling of being loved. This may have a dark impact on your children’s birth.
Therefore, every parent is taking care of the inconspicuous problem of children, and he directly reflects their children's attitude towards life. This is why some people around us are always full of complaints about life, and even indulge in the status quo and are unwilling to move forward. Some people always actively welcome the difficulties and problems brought by life, face them head-on, and do not miss any opportunity. This has a lot to do with the impact of parents on their own cognition since childhood.
Parents are children’s beacons and guides for their children’s lives. Everything you do may be a deep mark for your child.
So, when the child asks you again, "Mom, why do you have to go to work? Can you stay with me?", you can bend down, bend down, answer him with the greatest patience, so that he can feel your attitude towards work, your understanding of career, and your love for life.
or above is for reference and learning only. Please do it under the guidance of professionals. On the road of parenting, we are all novices. How to better take care of children? You can follow me and discuss with me what happens on the road of parenting.
