Babies "recognize people" are also staged. The way to distinguish between close and close relationships is very special. Have you got it?

Every family will have a lot of joy due to the birth of the baby. When watching the baby grow up day by day and bloom with a bright smile, at this moment mothers will feel that all the pain and fatigue they have suffered are worthwhile. Baby’s growth and development is actually a long process. From smiling, recognizing people, looking up, crawling, standing, and walking, each stage represents the baby’s growth and progress. All of these are inseparable from the serious care and company of mothers. . When taking care of a baby, many people may find that some babies are very sticky to their mothers, especially at night, if the mother has to hold them, the father or anyone else can't get closer.

The little treasure of the crooked mother's house is the same. He was very clingy when he was young. After Xiaobao was born, his mother-in-law and husband have been helping him, but Xiaobao still loves to stick to his mother. During the day, his father and grandma can help hold him for a while. At night, he only recognizes his mother. If you leave him, you will cry non-stop, even if your mother wants to go to the bathroom, she can only go while he is asleep.

Xiaobao’s father wants to go to work and has no time to accompany him during the day. When he comes back from work in the evening, he wants to hug Xiaobao and play with him for a while, but Xiaobao doesn’t give any face, and he does it at night. Hanging on Wei Ma like a koala and keeping every step of the way, Dad often keeps talking sorely, so that Wei Ma has a sense of existence.

In fact, it is a common problem for children to stick to their mothers. There is a saying that "a one-month baby can recognize people based on milk taste, and three months can recognize mothers." That is to say, a one-month baby You can recognize your mother based on the milk scent on your mother's body. If someone else does not have this mother's exclusive smell, the baby will naturally not respond. But if you want to get closer to your baby, you must always be with your baby. After the milk smells, your baby will start to get close to you.

If it is said that a baby can recognize his mother by smell in one month, when did he really recognize people? This has to be divided into three stages.

1--2 month old babies recognize people by smell

We all know that newborn babies can’t see things, they don’t have any image concepts and memories, either Without own consciousness. At this time, the baby can’t tell the difference between his family and strangers. However, they can rely on their instinctive reaction to suck milk, and they can also identify their mother based on the smell. When he realizes that her mother is his own food When it comes to the source, it will group the mother as one, instinctively accept the mother, and for everything else outside, it will automatically be recognized as "other things", with a certain degree of repulsion, which is why the baby loves The reason for sticking to mom.

3-6 months old baby learns to recognize people

After three months, the baby’s eyes can see things slowly, and the baby will start to recognize people. Among the people, mom and dad, grandparents, etc., will first appear in the baby’s sight, and the baby will slowly form his own memories. With the extension of time, these memories will gradually change from the previous fuzzy impressions More clearly, the first thing babies remember is those relatives who take care of themselves. After three months, the baby will also begin to show his own small emotions to the relatives around him, such as like or bored, angry or happy, he will have his own small actions, mothers can observe carefully, and then they can grasp them at any time The baby's emotions are over.

A 7-8 month old baby knows "who you are"

After the baby is half a year old, his recognition and memory abilities will With obvious improvement, babies in this period can clearly know those relatives who often accompany them, which is the father, which is the mother, etc., will also clearly distinguish who is his own and who is a stranger. , The little guy will know everything in his heart. The baby in this period will become more and more dependent on the person who takes care of him for a long time. When someone tries to hold him away from the familiar environment, It will resist by crying, but it will be much better after the baby is familiar with it for a period of time. This is also a manifestation of the baby's recognition of people.

When the baby recognizes people, he will be very close to familiar family members, and will have a sense of rejection of strangers, which is what we usually call recognition. They will compare the stranger with the face in their memory. They will look at the stranger's face for a longer period of time, and may even have stronger emotional reactions such as crying and avoiding. This shows that babies begin to have their own emotional memory, which is also a stage that babies must go through in the process of intellectual development.

But what makes many mothers worry is that when the baby will recognize people, it is easy to cry when they see strangers, especially when guests come to the house. It will make mothers feel very embarrassed. This is because the baby is in the birth recognition period, and the feelings of timidity and anxiety are their normal reaction. Mothers can guide the baby gradually and encourage the baby to contact and socialize with her friends. You can take your baby to community squares, gardens, green spaces and other places to let your baby see the fresh and interesting scenes around you, perceive the sounds and looks of different people, and pay special attention to let your baby experience the joy of interacting with people, and gradually reduce the interaction with strangers Insecurities and fears help the baby pass the birth recognition period smoothly.

Each stage of the baby’s growth is an indispensable link in their life. The encouragement and support of the mothers is the best care for the baby. So when taking care of the baby, have the mothers encountered a situation where the baby recognizes the birth? How do you solve it? Welcome to leave your valuable experience in the comment area below and share the discussion with your mother.