Who takes the child after the birth and who to sleep with at night are all important considerations for the family. After all, Bao's father still has work to do, and Bao's mother hasn't recovered well and can't stay up late at night.
So grandma and grandma became the main force to bring the baby.
Although the two elderly people have experience in taking care of children when they are young, they may have some differences when bringing a baby because of their different positions, which will affect the children.
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Therefore, when a child sleeps with his grandmother since childhood, compared with sleeping with his grandmother, mothers need to know in advance to avoid regrets in the future.
The two girlfriends have babies at the same time, one sleeps with the grandmother and the other with the grandmother. There is a big difference. All boys.
Because Yating's mother-in-law is still in business and has no time to help take care of the children, she asks her mother to help with the baby, and feels that it disturbs the elderly's life in the old age, so she pays a certain amount of money for bringing the baby every month.
And Xueli lived with her mother-in-law, and it was too hard to sleep with the child during the confinement period, so she let him sleep with her grandmother, and the child was also married to each other.
As a result, when the children were about two years old, when they brought their babies together, they realized that the two children's personalities and behaviors were very different.
Yating’s child is lively, well-behaved, sensible, polite, cheerful all day long, and will not be angry;
Xueli’s child is like a little overlord, and when he doesn’t obey him, he loses his temper. He also likes to bully people. When Xueli wanted to teach him, he cried and said, "Mom is bad, I want grandma."
Makes Xueli embarrassed and helpless.
Xueli said that her mother-in-law was very strong when she took care of the children. She always felt that she would bring a baby more than others, and she spoiled her grandson very much. As a result, she really regretted her current character.
I don't know if I can correct the child's character in the future.
As Yating’s mother feels that she is doing things with money, she focuses on Yating’s ideas in caring for the children, and she usually pays attention to the food, clothing, housing and transportation of her grandson.
said that the child sleeps with her and doesn't worry about other things.
The result is that Yating's children are not overly spoiled by their elders, and they are more pleasing in character and behavior.
It’s very particular about who the child sleeps with.
▼ Those who accompany the child should know how to educate them
Everyone with a baby knows who the child sleeps with at night is easy to treat. Create a sense of intimacy.
Especially when this kid is not breast-feeding, but is feeding with milk powder, he will not be familiar with the smell of his mother and will get closer to the person who sleeps with him.
Afterwards, in terms of education, children are also more willing to listen to the opinions of their close parents.
Parents who know how to guide the positive development of their children are more beneficial to the formation of their character and character.
▼ Good health
Children will be hungry and crying at night. It is difficult for people with babies to sleep at night. It is very hurtful to sleep insufficient and staying up late. If you ignore them cruelly, It is also easy to make the baby feel insecure.
Therefore, people with good health and energy are more suitable to sleep with their children.
▼ is able to accompany children
Children aged 1-3 need to suggest attachment relationships. If someone is willing to accompany them, they will feel more secure and will naturally take the initiative to get close.
But companionship is in addition to feeding and dressing,It is also important to be able to read children's ideas and communicate with them.
For example, when telling a story to a child, they start crying, and some parents may become impatient, and then do not tell or guess what they want, just let the other person sleep quietly.
In this way, children's emotional needs are still not met.
When can the child sleep independently?
Generally speaking, when babies do not need to be fed at night, they can be allowed to sleep in a small bed alone. They can adapt to the separation from their mother in advance, so as to avoid being too dependent on the mother to sleep all the time and wake up at night. habit.
The latest time for children to sleep in separate beds, it is best not to exceed 3 years old.
Because the 3-year-old baby already has gender awareness , the child has been sleeping with the opposite-sex parent, which is not conducive to the development of their gender awareness.
And the time of sleeping in separate beds is too late, which will affect their future sleeping in separate rooms.
Then they become independent when they are 5 years old, and parents can let them sleep in a small room by themselves.
If the children are not used to it at the beginning, you can let the dolls accompany them, and do not lock themselves and the children's door, so they come when they are afraid at night.
Today’s topic: When is your child sleeping independently?
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