Editor of this article｜Spanni
Reviewer｜Inspector
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Post-90s and post-90s are still relatively open to having two children and three children, the main reason is to be able to achieve both children. Because in the common sense, one son and one daughter can make up a good word, and their later life will be more comfortable.Introduction
It is not difficult to find around us. Most people often think that the "one child and one daughter" family is the happiest, and this combination is also the most perfect. So is one son and one daughter the happiest?
▼People who came here: "One son and one daughter" 20 years later, the drawbacks began to show up, the "birth of boys and girls" is really different
I was walking in the park some time ago When several aunts sat together and chattered, one of the older aunts sighed with emotion: "Who said that one son and one daughter is good, but two daughters are better for me! Our daughter is very caring to me, think I will give everything I want,One phone call a day, my son hasn't seen anyone for half a year! "
Another aunt answered: "It’s not true. I used to say that a son is good, so I wanted to have a son now. Don't have a younger brother after the two sisters.
Now my eldest daughter buys these expensive clothes, and my second daughter reimburses me for traveling. What about my son? Every day I only count on me to raise a child for him, and my daughter-in-law will quarrel with me from time to time, which is too bad! "
An aunt who has been silent, said unhurriedly: "Actually, it’s not that bad to have a son. Our two sons are quite obedient. I am very filial! Except for the pressure when buying a house and marrying a wife, but now they are married, and they want to ask me to live with them in the past, and I don’t need me to bring children. The daughters-in-law are also very reasonable, not as exaggerated as you said!
After listening to this aunt's words, other people cast envy eyes and praised that she would be too happy to be educated, and this time also made me fall into contemplation.
Many people say that having children are the same, or that one child and one daughter is standard, but they treat their sons and daughters differently, thinking that their daughters can be their own intimate little quilted jackets, and their sons can give themselves to the end of their life. .But the facts are: family with one child and one daughter,Many parents find that their daughters tend to be more filial to themselves when they are old, while their sons seem to be less concerned about themselves, and instead have to continue to work hard for their son's life.
Actually, whether it is a son or a daughter, the key lies in how parents educate.
Like the last aunt said, the son is actually not as bad as everyone said. With a son, he did not spend his old age all the time.
Some people know how to educate their children, so the sons they raise are also very good and considerate, so that their old age will naturally be happier.
So what should parents do in the process of educating their children so that they can live a happier life in their later years?
► When educating children, one must not be eccentric.
Family with one child and one daughter usually has certain disadvantages.
is that many parents think that only sons can "pass on the line" for themselves, and daughters always have to marry out. Many parents may be more careful with their sons but ignore their daughters.
If parents start from the day they raise their children,With this mentality, in the process of educating two children by , there is bound to be biased behavior, and may unconsciously favor the son.
If parents have this kind of partial and careful thinking when educating their children, then the children are treated unfairly, and the person who falls out of favor will often have opinions and will be deeply injured, so the parent-child relationship will also be As a result, it is affected.
► Let the child know how to be grateful
● Whether the child is a son or a daughter, parents should pay for the child equally, not for no reason.
When raising children, we should also to cultivate children’s sense of gratitude .
To let children know that others should be grateful for their own good, it is not something that can be obtained for nothing.
And parents are good to their children, and children are also good to their parents. Love is mutual. So when the parents are old,Children will be filial instead of becoming white-eyed wolves.
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In fact, whether it is a child and a daughter, two girls, or a combination of two boys, each has its own advantages. No matter what kind of family, it can be harmonious and warm, and life can also be happily in old age.
Parents, what is your family combination?
Editor of this article: Mom Yuan
Reviewer: Almighty Hot Mom
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