The one-and-a-half-year-old baby stopped crying and his mother was a little bit disappointed.

On September 7, 2021, my family and I decided to respond to the national call to get the new crown vaccine. I asked the doctor if I could still breastfeed after the new crown vaccine. The doctor said that I could feed and asked me to continue feeding. But I stopped breastfeeding my baby anyway. The World Health Organization and Chinese Nutrition Society recommend breastfeeding to 2 years old, and mothers who are able to feed it to 2 years old.

My baby is one and a half years old, and they all say that it is enough to be fed to this age. But I still have a lot of milk. Sometimes I don’t bother to quit, so I can eat it whenever I want. I planned to abstain from breastfeeding when the baby was 6 months old, and then slowly dragged it until the baby was one and a half years old, and I didn’t really give up until now I was vaccinated.

There are many ways to stop breastfeeding. Before giving up breastfeeding, I have consulted many people about their experience of stopping breastfeeding. Some said they put on lipstick, some said that they had to give up, and some said that they would stay in a hotel for 3 days without letting their children see their mothers. There are various ways to quit. And the process of quitting milk was relatively easy. The baby did not cry or make trouble, and quit breastfeeding easily. Because it was easy, I was not so happy as a mother. I was a little bit disappointed. Maybe I can share the method here:

First: Weaning first. I gave up night milk when my baby was 1 year old, but night milk is actually very good. Ying Caier said in the variety show that the second child HOHO gave up night milk after the full moon. I let my baby breastfeed until 2 years old. I don't have to eat during the day when I go to work. I am a mother who carries milk and milks in the unit during the day. As the baby's ration during the day the next day, I will feed it when I get home in the evening. My baby is an angel baby. Even if he wakes up at night, he will go to bed after a few bites. After quitting night milk, you will feel that your whole person is much better, and you will find that you are not so irritable.

Second: do a good job of mental construction. Before the formal cessation of breastfeeding, give your baby a nagging nagging in advance, don't think the baby can't understand it, to be honest, the baby can understand everything. Of course, the larger the effect, the better. I started talking to my baby a week before we stopped breastfeeding. When the baby was breastfeeding, I would tell her that her mother is going to have an injection and that she can't take her grandmother. My brothers and sisters don't take it anymore. We can drink milk in the future. The baby will listen very carefully and seems to understand.

Third: the most critical point.On the day of abstinence, that is, the day I got the vaccine, I took the baby to accompany me to get the injection. The baby witnessed the process of my injection. I put white toothpaste on my grandma. I think the toothpaste is not harmful, and the color is different from the others. She will definitely dislike it. Sure enough, she said she was going to take milk. I said that my mother had an injection today, and my grandma broke, and I showed it to her. She cried when she saw it, and then didn't eat it. Later, she turned her attention away and gave her milk powder. Drink it all up. Because the baby has the habit of sleeping with milk and wants to have milk when she goes to bed, I said that my mother had an injection, and she said she wanted to see it, and I would show it to her. She stopped eating after reading it, and then went to bed. I turned off the lights and played music to her, and she fell asleep after a while. She wanted to eat when she woke up the next day, and she knew that she could not eat it. She would tell her to get an injection, and then look at it again, and she would not eat it. I thought I would cry and make a lot of noise, but I didn't expect the baby to be more sensible than I thought.

Fourth, adjust your mentality. Quitting milk is often not a baby's quitting. It's that mothers quit 37-degree close contact with their children. This is really the knot of mothers.

Not willing to grow up, but expecting you to grow up. Goodbye, 37-degree link.