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"It is the first time for my daughter to come to her official holiday. I invited the whole family to buy cakes and give her a good celebration!" But the daughter didn't appreciate it, she kept pulling on the dinner table. Face, am I doing something wrong?
As a woman, this is the first time I have heard about menarche and celebrating menarche. I don't know what this mother would think of her daughter if she did this. If it were me, I would feel embarrassed.
My daughter is menstruating, how do you do it?
No one told me what to do, so I had to deal with it secretly.
Girls come to menstrual holidays, and many parents don’t know how to tell their children. Some parents even think that this is a relatively obscure thing, and they will not tell their children in advance what they should do. As a result, after the children come on an official holiday, they dare not tell the parents to handle it secretly.
My parents are like this. I remember the first time I had menstruation, it was about the second grade. At that time, the children did not develop as early as they are now, and there are not so many girls who have menstruation in the second grade.
Girls, I must have seen how moms do when they are menstruating. When I found blood stains on my pants, I used toilet paper to padded many layers, and then I didn't dare to throw away the used paper, because I couldn't see it in a bag, and then secretly threw it away.
But in the end, I still didn't escape my mother's eyes. My mother still found out about my menstruation. My mother didn't tell me much, just bought sanitary napkins and told me how to use them. Instead, my father told me that this is normal, and that girls will have menstruation when they are older.
Of course, it’s no wonder that my mom didn’t vaccinate me in advance, because the times have changed and girls’ menstrual cycles have advanced, and my mom didn’t expect me to have menstruation so early.
Make a small science popularization of menstruation in advance, so that children are not afraid of menstruation
If you want your children to accept menstruation smoothly, you must make a science popularization of menstruation in advance for your children, so that the children will not be disturbed when they are menarche .
When will we educate our children in this respect? I think it's better to be early than late!
The child matures earlier now. We had menstruation in junior high school at that time, and now many girls have menstruation in elementary school. My daughter is over two years old, and now I often see me using sanitary napkins. I will also simply tell her what is going on, although she still doesn't quite understand it.
I think this kind of education is not deliberate, but subtle. As the child gets older, his understanding becomes stronger, and more knowledge can be told to her. When you go to elementary school, you can tell her everything.
What do you talk about with your children?
First, I think it is a normal thing to tell children that it is something that every girl has to go through. The purpose of this is not to make the child ashamed or afraid.
Second, tell your child that if he has menstruation, he must tell his mother! Mom will always be a good friend in your life, and Mom will help you deal with it together.
Third, after the child comes to menstruation, the first thing is to comfort the child, don't be too surprised, bring negative emotions to the child, and then teach the child how to deal with it.
Is the child coming to menstruation to celebrate? No need!
There are parents who, like the parent at the beginning, think that when the child grows up, they will hold a celebration ceremony for him. Let the children know that this is something to be proud of! But in this way, more people will know about the child's menstruation. It is okay if the child can accept it. If the child does not want many people to know, the child will feel very embarrassed.
If it is you,Will you let people all over the world know that you are menstruating? I think adolescent children definitely don't want it, and I don't want it anyway.
Parents really want to do this. They must communicate with their children in advance, ask the children clearly, and do it if they agree.
If you want to invite relatives and friends, ask your child's opinions and who you want to invite. Because the child doesn't want everyone to know, just invite the people she wants to tell.
However, I still think that this method should not be promoted. Let the children accept this incident naturally and treat it as a normal thing, rather than how proud and proud it is!
How do you tell your child about menstruation? My child has menstruation, how do you deal with it?
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