Guide: On the way of educating children, many friends have heard suggestions for children’s growth and development, such as “sleeping in January, crying, and saving belly in three months”, or “sit and crawl three times over six times”, although these suggestions are based on What the older generation conveyed is not 100% accurate, but it is in line with the development of most children. Today, we are going to talk about the topic of sleeping in January and crying in March.
01, sleep in January
sleep in January, as the name suggests, one month baby likes to sleep . Many friends disagree with this statement. In their opinion, the baby in January likes crying most, crying when hungry, crying when crying, crying when urinating, crying when cold, crying when hot, crying when feeling sick, and crying every day. Crying, crying mothers are very depressed.
In fact, many newborns especially like to cry, but this is for a reason, because their needs are not met. If parents can take care of their children carefully, will discover and meet their needs in time, Then the children will be like little angels, let alone crying, after all, they need a lot of sleep at this time.
The sleep needs of a one-month baby
Sleep is very important to a child. Adequate sleep is very helpful to the baby's development and can make him grow healthier. However, children's ages are different and their sleep needs are also different. The sleep time of 1 month old babies is the longest in the entire developmental process, about 18-20 hours a day, 2-5 months old babies have a slightly shorter sleep time, 6-12 months old babies Sleep time is 14-16 hours. Therefore, 1 month old babies sleep during the day, which is also the main reason for "one month sleep".
Of course, not all children sleep well. Many mothers respond that their children often experience unstable sleep, easy awakening, crying at night, etc.For this problem, mothers should first find out the cause, and then prescribe the right medicine.
Reasons for unstable sleep in a 1-month-old baby
The baby is hungry: Newborn baby’s belly is very small, and often eats a little to be full , but if the baby pulls or urinates, he will Hungry immediately. If the mother cannot meet the needs of the child in time, the baby will not sleep well, crying and crying until it is satisfied; there are also mothers with insufficient breast milk, the baby will sleep tired after eating a little, but too I was hungry again after a while, which is also the reason for unstable sleep and frequent crying.
The child eats too much: There are many reasons why the child cries, not only is hungry, if the mother cannot find out the reason in time, mistakenly thinks she is hungry, and then feeds the child frequently, she may be . Too much makes the child's stomach and intestines poor, and then the sleep is unstable.
Baby pulls or urinates: Everyone says that the baby in confinement is "rectum" , often pull urine every day, if If you use diapers, a small amount of urine will not feel great for your child, but if you use a diaper, even a small amount of urine will make your baby uncomfortable. Then use crying to remind your mother that even after falling asleep, you will wake up because of uncomfortableness. Or restless sleep.
The baby is cold, hot, too noisy: When mom brought the doll, she was always afraid that the baby would catch a cold, so she put on thick clothes and a thick blanket. When the baby is uncomfortable, it also makes the baby too uncomfortable and cannot sleep well; in addition, it is too cold,Or the room is too noisy, it will affect the child's sleep, let the child cry and protest.
Baby is uncomfortable: Some parents improperly take care of their children, causing their children to get eczema, diaper rash, red buttocks or armpits, flooded necks, etc. These conditions will make the child uncomfortable, and then use crying and sleeplessness to remind the child mother.
There are really many reasons why children cry. As a mother, you must pay attention to the child's physical condition and find the problem in time to relieve it. If the mother has enough breast milk, confinement babies usually eat every 1.5-2 hours, and the time will be longer at night. If you cry soon after feeding, mothers should not rush to feed the baby, take a look at the baby first Did you pull or urinate in your diaper; touch the child’s back to see if it’s cold or hot; then solve the problem purposefully and don’t be impatient or angry with the child.
02. Crying in February
Crying in February, as the name suggests, two-month-old babies cry easily . why is that? In fact, a 2-month-old child already has his own feelings, and he can express some small emotions. When he has unmet needs, he will cry more than 1 month old.
Flatulence generally appears in children at 2 months and disappears after about 3-4 months , depending on the baby, although it does not necessarily happen, but most children experience it, just the severity It is not the same as the duration.
But mothers don't worry too much, because flatulence is not a disease , it will disappear naturally after the baby's stomach develops well, but before that, some relief methods can be used to make the baby more comfortable.
1. When breastfeeding, Do not eat too much foremilk. If you eat too much, the lactose in the foremilk will ferment in the stomach and cause too much gas. Therefore, when the baby eats milk, try to eat one side empty and then eat the other side; Be careful not to feed too much, find the cause of your baby’s crying first, and don’t feed it as soon as you cry. If you eat too much, it will cause gastrointestinal discomfort and aggravate flatulence;
2, when your baby has flatulence, can Try airplane hug, let the baby lie on the bed or mother's belly, help the baby massage the abdomen clockwise to make the baby more comfortable.
03, March to save belly
The problem of March to save belly is also very clear, but it is necessary to clarify that as long as occurs in exclusively breastfed babies, saves belly will happen . Babies usually appear after two to three months, mainly because the infant’s digestive ability is improved and breast milk is fully digested and absorbed, resulting in fewer food residues.
The most important meaning of saving a stomach is: the baby is well-nourished, drinks well, sleeps well, mentally healthy, does not have painful expressions, but does not defecate for a long time ( some three or four days, some Seven or eight days, depending on the person ).
Broken thoughts:
In short, babies under one year old grow up very fast, almost every day. However, in general, some rules should be adhered to. As long as the parents of beginners have scientific education knowledge, they are not worried.
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