Yangyang is 3 years old, very lively at home, and very flattering with his family, but when playing outside, he becomes a "receptive bag". He doesn't know how to dodge what others rob him, and he doesn't know how to dodge when others hit him, hit him, or pinch him. When others have robbed him of his things, he dare not ask for it, even if it is a toy he likes very much. Under these circumstances he never only knew to cry and then said he wanted to go home. Therefore, Yang Yang often ran home crying, telling his mother who had bullied him and who had taken his toys away.
Once, when my mother went to the kindergarten to pay her fees, she made a special trip to Yangyang's class, and found that Yangyang was playing with a toy by himself, pouting, holding the toy silently there. The other children are playing games together in groups. At this time, a sturdy child in the class came over, and his mother was very happy at first, thinking he was here to play with Yang Yang. But when I saw my child silently deliver the toy in the other hand, my mother almost cried!
"Mom, why didn't the school and the teacher ask me? Am I bad? Why do they hate me and push me out?" When many people went out to play, the 15-year-old high school girl who had not been out for a week murmured every day Wash your face with tears.
The mumbling that should have gone to school, why not go out and constantly deny himself?
murmured that she had excellent academic performance since childhood and won many school and city awards. Therefore, her parents planned her to go abroad early, and after inquiring about them, they sent her to the Chaoyang Bilingual School attached to Beijing Foreign Studies University. After entering the school, Mumum got along well with the students from all over the country in the class, and his academic performance improved steadily, but all this changed dramatically under the "bullying" of several students.
's daughter’s classmates Li Ping, Li Meizi, Qi Qi and Wang Yi “spread rumors at school, isolate and mutter, and use cold violence from time to time, which hurts the child’s self-confidence and self-esteem.” He was diagnosed and murmured. Depression. "The child is only 15 years old, and this disease may accompany the whole life."
Children are taught to respect the elders, love the young, be helpful, be kind to others, and treat friends sincerely...
These behaviors require nothing wrong, but the reality is complicated , Bao parents and mothers should let their children know what true kindness is. Otherwise, his child will become a "receptive bag", but he does not know it.
Kindness is not just being forbearing and letting children get delicious and fun things in life. They all like to share with their friends. The child of a friend Lele is a child who likes to share and always wants to play with others. He is very enthusiastic and treats others. The children are very nice.
sometimes, in order to be able to play with children, you can ignore any problems. This resulted in everyone being able to treat him arbitrarily and even bully him. Children are always eager to integrate into the group. If other people use the child’s desire to ask him to do something wrong, because the child does not have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, he will often compromise.
For example, if a child wants to play with children, if some children ask that they have to hand over their favorite toys, although they are not willing, they will often accept this request.
At this time, parents must tell their children that they must follow their own inner principles when doing anything. If they feel wronged or hurt when doing this, they can bravely say "no".
Children’s ability to handle things is limited after all. When a child encounters a problem that cannot be solved, parents must be a strong backing for the child, so that the child can trust and rely on at any time.
Therefore, parents should tell their children that it does not matter if they are being bullied. If they can be solved, they can solve it by themselves. If they can’t be solved, they can ask the teacher or parents for help, so that the child will feel safe enough. Of course, you should also warn your children to stay away from people with bad personalities, and don't always be patient in situations. Solving problems is far more important than avoiding them.
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