High self-requirement and fear of going to school: once a hypnosis, the mother gave a feedback that it was amazing, and she unloaded the stone in the child’s heart!
Ah Teacher Man_Hypnosis, depression, fear of both sides, anxiety, forced fear!
A girl, Bipolar disorder .
mother described,
child has two-phase, and has always wanted to live now, self-harm, swallow medicine, do not eat or drink, and do not cooperate with the doctor. She believes that seeing a psychologist is useless.
I have been seeking medical treatment for a year and I have not changed, so I have no confidence.
When she was hospitalized, the psychologist told her to think badly about everything so that she would not be disappointed, so she would now think badly about everything.
I had insomnia again last night and went to bed at four or five o'clock. Now I can't get up. She is now discharged from the hospital and going to school, but she is struggling every day and wants to go to school, but she is afraid of going to school.
Today, in the last class of school, I stab myself with a pen again.
She has always had good grades and has high requirements for herself, but if she cannot achieve the goals she sets, she will feel boring to live. How to heal
?
Hypnosis healing deep trauma technology can quickly and accurately connect to the root of symptoms and trauma, or through projection, you can accurately grasp the direction of healing!
healing complex can help recover quickly and effectively! Generally, one hypnosis has an immediate effect!
With the mother's repeated encouragement and communication, the child is willing to give it a try.
hypnosis saw that she had too high self-requirement but too low self-identity! Depression escape is not just now, but always there!
At first, high requirements came from the outside world, such as parents and teachers. When the surroundings continue to strengthen and the sensitive and strong children will internalize high requirements into their own personality!
When high requirements are internalized into one’s own personality, the high requirements will grow very quickly, and the level of requirements can easily exceed one’s own abilities!
When the requirements are too high, they may often not reach their ideal height! But once you are frustrated, you will feel self-blame, shame, and worthless!
The sense of value comes from external judgments. The self-identity is very low, and you care too much about external judgments, and even live for external good judgments. You often cannot see the objective good or bad of real things!
The outside world said it was OK, it was okay! But once you can't say it well, you will be upset and feel uncomfortable!
Outsiders seem to have excellent grades, but in fact, she is highly nervous every day at school and is under great pressure every exam.
Under long-term high pressure, his performance declined, he felt deeply blamed himself and felt uncomfortable in his heart. The target is under great pressure now, and it is even more difficult to move forward!
The outside world and oneself are constantly pressuring, endlessly pursuing the best, and the high-demand personality has no other way to grow. If you really cannot achieve it, there is no other way except to escape or even give up on yourself.
The reason for the hypnotic connection problem,
hypnosis, she heard a voice saying criticism: If you don’t learn well, you will not succeed and you will not deserve it!
does not deserve to like others, and is not worthy of the person you like, because the family of the person you like is very financially. If you don’t study well, you feel that there is nothing to be worthy of others.
Although their family only told her that it would be enough to take good care of her, she felt that if she didn't study well, their family would definitely look down on her.
In fact, her family is not short of money, but she always feels that others will look down on her. In fact, it is her projection of being too inferior to herself. She cannot identify with her abilities. She always cares about external judgments and is more sensitive to negative judgments. Even if others do not have negative judgments, she herself tends to have negative imagination. Why is this happening to
? Because she is always negatively reinforced on her growth path.
Hypnosis returns to deeper trauma,
hypnosis, she returned to the third grade of elementary school and got the first place in the exam, but her mother said: Don’t be proud, it’s not that you are great, it’s that others didn’t work hard, you are just lucky.
When she heard this, she felt deeply shocked. She felt that she was not worthy of the first place she had worked so hard. She felt very frustrated and wronged.How to deal with
?
In deep hypnosis, it can guide and change the direction and outlet of emotions in subconscious memory, and can encode the behavior patterns in original memory, turn passive endurance into active solution, release emotions, find strength, and heal complexes!
first, try to express grievances to your mother.
guides her to express her grievances with her mother in hypnosis, but she can try it, but she doesn’t feel anything. How could this happen to
? This situation occurs in
because she always suppressed her grievances in the past, was not close to her emotions, and never effectively paid attention to and expressed her softness, defense, isolation, and not close to her mother. Therefore, although she expressed her behavior, she had no emotional links.
doesn’t matter. The channel to express to my mother is not ready yet, so let’s put it aside.
Second, the idea of wanting to die if you are wronged.
When she feels sad and wronged, she will think of death.
Want to die is her escape. What should I do?
We use the technique of survival in the face of death. During hypnosis, she saw that she came to hell after she died and endured all kinds of punishments. She felt very sad, felt that she should not die, and regretted the idea of dying at the beginning.
So she went from wanting to wanting to live well, and established a desire for life inside and gained positive driving force. How to live well with
?
At least pay attention and deal with your emotions.
hypnosis, she returned to the third grade and used the emotional release technique, and she began to cry. I couldn't help crying before, but this time, she allowed herself to cry.
Can’t help crying and allowing crying are two different things. Can’t help crying, it’s a kind of collapse. Allowing yourself to cry is an emotional channel. After crying, stronger power will be generated.
When she allowed herself to cry, when she released all her grievances and tears, she felt that she was charging. After charging, I feel that I have the strength to continue studying, rather than being decadent.
Third, peel off the harm of mother.
Her grades have always been very good. Her family praised her very much, but her mother felt that she could not make her proud, so she always denied and attacked her.
However, the real reason is that my mother doesn’t want her to be proud? Why can’t children be happy and proud?
If you are a mother who is full of strength, tolerance and warmth in her heart, you will actually believe that your affirmation of your child will increase your confidence and strength.
But this mother doesn’t think so because when everyone warms, loves and gets close to the child, it will inspire the mother to be traumatized by the fact that she is not warm or loved.
In my mother's growth experience, my grandmother was always picky, beaten and deny, and my mother hated her intimate relationship.
So it’s not that my mother doesn’t love her, but that she can’t love her. It’s that unconsciously inspiring her mother’s defense and attack.
hypnosis through passive damage stripping technology and boundary separation technology, we peel off the damage of mothers and separate the boundary from mothers.
Before, my mother denied and attacked her. She felt that she had done something wrong and that she didn't like her. But when she saw that this was her mother's problem, she would not have to bear the harm caused by her mother's defense.
In this way, the mother's unconscious hatred and attacks were stripped away, and the hatred and attacks of intimate relationships were stripped away.
So the hypnosis ended. When she thought of the people she liked and his family, she didn't think that they always looked down on her, but she really cared about herself. She felt very satisfied and warm, and felt a big stone was removed from her heart.
is not the best thing to do with your grades. You can see your abilities as much as you can.
Once hypnosis, my mother gave a very magical feedback, and my daughter felt much more relaxed.
