In "The World", "Stupid children are actually coming to reward grace." The word "stupid" in life is a bit unbelievable, because it seems to represent ignorance and unknown light. But in fact, the state of "stupid people" is exactly what we should learn, because it is not a symbol

said in " People in the World ": "Stupid children are actually coming to reward."

, but the state of "stupid people" is exactly what we should learn, because it is not a symbol of stupidity, but a special happiness.

I think that life is long, and you must learn to be a "stupid person" appropriately.

01. Learn the bluntness of "stupid people"

Watanabe Chunyi once said: "The so -called" dull power ', that is, calmly facing the life in life. Society of frustration, that is, don't be too sensitive "

So what is called blunt sensation? In short, it is to make emotions blur and become a relatively dull person. Some time ago,

, I saw a video about such an example:

was a mother. She had two children. One was cheerful, careless, and the other was sensitive, but very sensible.

is a very interesting mother, she briskly express the difference between her two children.

The cheerful child usually does not care about the feelings of others, and most of them are centered on herself, so her mother's every move, words and deeds have no effect on her.

Her mother said: My face is a vague mosaic in front of her.

and the other child are very sensitive, saying one word and deeds, and even a delicate expression, she will pay attention and respond.

will always ask her mother: Mom, are you unhappy, is it that I am angry with you?

This is the difference between "blunt sensation".

Perhaps the first child may feel heartless and sensible in our lives, but to be honest, if you want to choose, I want to live as the second child.

is very easy to emotional because of too much attention to others, and it is also easy to fall into emotional fluctuations.

emotions are relatively advantageous and disadvantaged. The advantage is that it can make us have stronger empathy with others, and it is easier for us to appreciate the joy and sorrow of the world.

can also feel the pain caused by embarrassment when you meet the unhappiness of life.

So it is very important to cultivate "blunt sensation". Don't take the words and expressions of others too much, and don't over -interpret the sound of other people's string. All you have to do is become yourself.

is very important to make yourself happy in our lives. Of course, it is also important to make your lovers happy.

But we still have to let ourselves not be wrapped in our emotions, which is just fine that we think the best ourselves, and it doesn't matter what others say.

is at this time, I hope you can become the "little fool" with "bluntness".

02. Pretend to be a "stupid"

"The ancients have a saying: Dazhi Ruoyu ." I didn't find a strange phenomenon, that is, the stupid people are very blessed, as if the God of Heaven will be extra Like to favor them.

is because stupid people will not provoke right and wrong, nor will it make people jealous.

Smart people seem to be careful in the world. Everything must be planned in advance, and even choose the most appropriate path.

and they are often exposed in their lives, and various wonderful life and pleasure of life are displayed vividly.

they strive to show the world's excellent talents, high -level work levels, and omnipotent all -talented people.

is indeed appreciated by the boss, but on the other hand, it will also receive a lot of attention and malice.

properly becoming a "stupid" is to learn to treat others humblely and be able to "play pigs and eat tigers".

Some big guys never preach how good and talented their talents, they will wait for the opportunity to wait silently.

is because you don't know what kind of identity and ability others have, sometimes deliberately expressing yourself is a kind of exposure and put yourself under the "public".

sometimes waits slowly, and it is also important to get familiarity. Don't show all the showdown at once.

improves yourself, put yourself in a relatively hidden position and mysterious identity, and it is easier to occupy an active position.

03. "Stupid" also requires elastic potential energy

"Stupid people will always achieve their goals in the simplest way."

looks stupid, but they often have a spirit that ordinary people cannot reach, that is, perseverance.

Smart people will want to think about it, afraid of this, because their smart minds always want to achieve various best ways to achieve their own goals.

is that although the way is not light, they have the most lacking quality in the world, that is, insist on themselves.

uses their own way to achieve themselves. People say "stupid birds fly first", because they understand their position, they are easier to act and succeed.

and smart people will think about avoiding various risks, various theories, and may even delay because of their emotional distress. Their goals will be far much far more than the "stupid" goal.

is because practice is the only criterion for testing truth.

Any field requires "stupid people" in a simple way, the most stupid mind, and do that field over and over again.

can only persevere without giving up only "stupid people". This may be a gift of heaven, from one kind of incompetent to another.

We are living hard to find our own optimal solution. In fact, the most stupid way is to take root in the end and constantly digging to the bottom, and you will tell you the answer.

This may be the elastic potential energy of "stupid people".

Any elastic mechanism is the rebound effect generated by the force generated after excessive force, just like a rubber band, it will bounce back when it is staggering. The elastic potential energy of

is the result that the result generated after the continuous depth is the answer.

So learn to be a "stupid person" appropriately, that may not be your shortage, but it will become another kind of selection of you.

(This article is first created by Muhuan's emotion.