1 A young mother wanted to go to Zhejiang with her husband to purchase goods, so she left her daughter, who was less than 3 months old, to her mother-in-law for temporary care. Unexpectedly, the couple saw such a scene on the surveillance camera. Their daughter, who was less than

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A young mother wanted to go to Zhejiang with her husband to purchase goods, so she left her daughter who was less than 3 months old to her mother-in-law for temporary care.

Unexpectedly, the couple saw such a scene on the surveillance camera. Their daughter, who was less than three months old, kept crying from 6 o'clock in the morning to 7 o'clock in the morning. During this whole hour, they did not watch on the surveillance camera. to others.

The anxious woman called to ask, only to find out that her mother-in-law had gone back to her home to get the charger, and stopped by the market to buy some steamed buns on the way. Because I didn’t expect the baby to wake up so early, I chose to go home and go to the market during this hour.

watched her less than three-month-old daughter leave her and cried like this. When the young mother looked at the surveillance camera, her heart was bleeding, and the child's father was so anxious that he dropped his business and went home.

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In response to this, netizens were heartbroken and their opinions were also divided into opposing factions.

Some netizens think that with a baby that is only three months old, they don’t understand why both the couple have to go out to work and earn less money while leaving one person at home to look after the baby.

At the same time, some people criticized the old man for being too big-hearted. During this hour, the baby must have been so hopeless, helpless and scared!

A netizen who also became a grandmother shared her experience: She takes care of her grandchildren 24 hours a day at home, for fear of what will happen to her baby if they are away from her. The grandma in the video is so irresponsible.

Of course, it is understandable that they have such thoughts. After all, they are just a three-month-old baby. If something happens, it will be a pain that the family will never be able to erase in their lifetime.

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There are also netizens who hold different opinions. They think that grandma is really overwhelmed, and it is very difficult for her to take care of such a small baby by herself. At such a small baby, it may be that she is hungry or peed, which causes her to cry. After crying for a while, nothing will happen.

Some netizens said that today’s children are too spoiled and pampered, which was the case when they were children. They also asked, is taking care of children something that grandma must do?

It is true that there will be times when grandma is unable to take care of the baby by herself. Maybe grandma thought it was still early and the baby had not woken up so quickly, so she went home to get things. Grandma also wants to go out for some fresh air. She will feel a little bored after staying at home for a long time.

At the same time, some netizens blamed the couple for being too anxious to make money. The children are still young and need the company of their parents. This is the time when they can't take advantage of others. When you feel sorry for your children, you must also understand the elderly. It is not easy to take care of a baby alone. Don't blame the elderly at home. Especially the elderly, who may have more than enough heart but not enough energy to take care of their grandchildren.

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Since ancient times, the problem of raising children has also become a difficult problem for many new mothers and fathers. We must not only take care of the children, but also take into account every step of the child's growth, and do not rely on others. Many of them are only able to take care of one and not the other.

Very few families can take care of both. Naturally, it is inevitable to trouble the elderly at home. The way and ideas of the elderly in raising children are naturally stuck in the older generation’s concept of raising children, so there are inevitably conflicts and mistakes.

There are also some novice parents. I am still just a child. After giving birth to a child, I leave it to my grandparents to take care of, and I become the shopkeeper.

There is such an example around me.

Feng Jin is a new father. He is the only son in the family. He got married and bought a house a few years ago and had children. However, he was very smart. When he bought the wedding house, he bought it above his parents' house. His parents lived on the first floor. They live on the second floor.

Usually, the children are taken care of by the grandparents and three meals a day are eaten downstairs. Feng Jin and his wife never have a meal together.

Sometimes my son says, "Dad, Mom, I want to eat the food you cooked by your own hands."

If something happens to a child, it is the grandparents who step in to solve it. If the child is not feeling well, or there is something wrong with the child, it is the grandparents who discover the problem.

Feng Jin and his wife often leave their children with their grandparents, and they go shopping and watching movies. It seems that just like a boyfriend and girlfriend in a relationship, they usually sit down and check their mobile phones. The early education and educational materials ordered for the children are also taught by grandma. Grandma sometimes gets very angry. After the grandson is born, she becomes even busier and more tired. , doing more. Does grandma have to do so much?