Hello everyone, I am the mother~
July has arrived in a blink of an eye, and the two "mythical beasts" at home are about to return. My best friends and I discussed in the WeChat group how to arrange this summer vacation.
Several sisters said that they have made detailed holiday study plans for their children and listed a long list of reading books. At a glance, they can tell that they are " in-volume little masters".
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After reading this, I just want to say the last sentence: imagination is always beautiful, but if you really put these "mythical beasts" at home to study, the efficiency is probably worrying. After all, the two siblings The old mother knows her strength very well.
My best friend’s plan naturally didn’t work for me, so I had no choice but to discuss a solution with my husband. Finally, he suggested that we should still be the “third child”. I have persisted for five years, and my two children have indeed benefited a lot. .
After thinking twice, he finally decided to proceed with the original plan - to give up letting his children "make up lessons" at home and move to the following "places".
If you are also worried about how to let your children spend a fulfilling and learning summer vacation, you might as well follow it~
Experience sharing of mothers of two children: take your children to these "treasure places" during summer vacation
1, books Museum
As the saying goes: "There is a beauty like jade in a book, and a house of gold in a book."
Allowing children to read a lot of books from an early age can not only increase their knowledge, but also gain different insights into life, enrich their emotional experience, and sharpen their temperament. .
Some people may ask, why do you have to choose to go to the library to read books when you can read them at home? In fact, the meaning behind it is different.
1. Let children feel more of the "learning" atmosphere
Research has found that more than 90% of parents said that their children have problems such as not focusing on reading and poor reading effect. In fact, these problems all point to one point: they lack a "quiet" reading” environment.
Because children love to play by nature, and their temperament is unstable, they are often easily influenced by family members at home and cannot help but watch TV and play with mobile phones, which naturally greatly reduces the efficiency of learning.
The atmosphere in the library is different. Everyone is immersed in the influence of knowledge, and their faces are full of satisfaction brought by learning. This kind of atmosphere is often easier to impress children, allowing them to "quiet" and enter " "Reading" mode.
Sometimes parents have to believe that children actually have the potential to make progress, but they just need guidance.
2. Let children have more reading choices
There are a large number of books in the library, and they cover a wide range of books. They are also divided into different categories, allowing children to choose according to their own interests and hobbies. It also better solves the problem of parents having difficulty choosing books.
is like my two children. Because they are of different age groups and genders, the focus of book selection is also different. It is more troublesome to choose books every time, and they take up a lot of space at home.
Finally, every time I take my children to the library, I let them choose their favorite reading. If there are good books that need to be read intensively and chewed over and over again, I can buy them back and read them, which is a lot more convenient.
2, Museum
According to surveys, most children with excellent academic performance in the United States spend 30% of their time "soaking" in museums every day. They think they learn more knowledge and remember more deeply. This view is not unreasonable.
Take my Dabao as an example. When he first came into contact with the subject of history, he always felt that the knowledge points in history books were obscure and boring. The timeline of dynasties and events often did not match up, and his grades were a mess. At one time, he was very interested in this subject. Exclusion.
Later, during the summer vacation, I took her to a local museum to experience it. Uncharacteristically, she told us that we should study history carefully.
"Mom, I think those ancient objects can talk. I am particularly curious about what they experienced in the past..."
Dabao's words gave us an unexpected harvest.In fact, this is how to guide children to learn. You teach them 10,000 times and ask them to memorize boring knowledge points 10,000 times. It is better to take them to see it in person.
There are many types of museums, and there are card background introductions and guide explanations, allowing children to learn more knowledge beyond books through their own observation and external assistance, which helps stimulate their interest in learning.
If you want your children to learn history, you can take them to social history museums;
If you want your children to improve their aesthetics, you can take them to culture and art museums;
If you want to increase your children's knowledge, you can take them to Museum of Natural History or Museum of Ancient Architecture.
3, Summer Camp
Mr. Tao Xingzhi has a famous saying: "We must liberate children's minds, hands, feet, space, and time, so that they can fully enjoy a free life and get real education from a free life."
Summer Camp It is a very good form of "getting real education in a free life". Generally, children have a long vacation in the summer. We would choose to use this long vacation to enroll the children in summer camp, and we have persisted for five years.
Once it comes, it can give children a richer life experience, change their living environment, and exercise their ability to quickly adapt to the new environment.
Secondly, after going to summer camp, children break away from the protection of their parents, learn to live on their own, and socialize with different friends. These tests can help children become more independent, and also help enhance their social skills, which is good for children. Future personal development is more favorable.
[Summary]
Many times, we want children to learn more new knowledge and become better in the future, so don’t just trap them in school or at home.
Life is full of scenery, and life is full of education. Let them see and listen to the outside world more, feel the beauty of the world for themselves, learn knowledge beyond textbooks, and apply the knowledge they have learned to life practice. Only in this way can it be considered a "perfect life experience."
