was not doing well. He smiled and said nothing to his mother-in-law.
Because what my mother-in-law said is true and complies with the law, what can you do?
What's more, your mother-in-law may just want you not to push yourself too far. She feels that she takes care of the children for granted and is ungrateful. As the saying goes, ugly words come first to facilitate future actions.
Maybe I am just lazy and don’t want to take care of my children myself, so I will give you some money, subsidize you, and let you figure it out on your own?
Of course, if your mother-in-law just wants to embarrass you, she will show no sign at all, and may even try to sow discord between you and your husband, or play dirty tricks like double-dealing!
Don’t be angry, let alone be unhappy with your mother-in-law or husband. Because to you, only you, your husband and your children are a real family. Your mother-in-law is just a drag on your marriage, so don’t let her go!
A smart woman, when faced with this kind of situation, will calmly say to her husband, since my mother-in-law is like this, she will not come to our house in the future. She is an eyesore. Anyway, my mother-in-law has her own home and her own husband.
In the future, it is best for you not to have anything to do with your mother-in-law and her family. All matters related to your mother-in-law and her family should be left to your husband and you will not have any involvement at all.
Tell your husband that it’s okay for you to honor your mother in the future, but both parents must treat him equally! Don’t expect you to sacrifice your time and energy to take care of your mother-in-law!
Then, discuss with your mother to see if she is willing to help you take care of the baby, or work with a nanny or hourly worker to take care of the baby.
It's best if you want to, but it doesn't matter if you don't want to. You can hire a nanny and install some cameras so that the child is always under the nose of you and your husband.
Or maybe you or your husband have different working hours, or try to find flexible working methods, such as working from home, such as flexible working hours and so on.
The two of you should work together to resolve matters at home, especially your husband, who needs to put in more effort. You did all the pregnancy, birth, and breastfeeding, and the child has his surname, so you must have a little more energy!
