After writing this topic, the scene when I was working in a life company flashed in my mind. At that time, September 1st every year was the day when new students in the company’s nursery and kindergarten entered the school. The most common thing is that some children are unwillin

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After writing this question, the scene when I was working in a life company flashed in my mind.

At that time, September 1st every year was the day when new students entered the company's nursery schools and kindergartens. The most common thing is that some children are unwilling to go in, and even behave and roll around. A soft-hearted mother will burst into tears and cannot bear to leave.

When your mind matures, you will find that you are not doing something wrong. You have more important choices than the other person. Maybe this will bring some harm and displeasure to the other person, but it is not your fault.

You have to allow the other person to feel hurt, because he cares about you and doesn't want you to leave. Just like some mothers can't bear to see their children cry, but crying is just a way for children to digest and hurt.

To achieve mental maturity, you must master boundaries, high self-esteem, and choices.

Boundaries are the greatest respect for each other. I believe you can take responsibility for yourself, so I respect you. An immature person, on the other hand, wants others to be responsible for him. This is like falling into the state of an infant - I want a mother.

High self-esteem means that I choose to reject you when I don’t want to do something, but I am still a good person. I choose to leave you when I choose to take care of myself first. I am still a good person. Just because I prioritize taking care of myself doesn’t mean I’m a bad, selfish, or heartless person.

As for the choice, I can choose to continue to pay and tolerate, or I can choose to leave. No matter what you choose, you can and must be responsible for yourself.

Spiritual growth requires learning, but when you see the results, you will know that you have grown up a bit.

Finally returned to myself. After the couple retired, my wife always wanted to travel around. But first, the grandson was born, and they were worried that the young couple would be too busy; then when he went to kindergarten and elementary school, he needed to be picked up and dropped off, accompanied by students, and cooked; when he went to junior high school, he thought he would wait until he went to high school.

I’m really waiting for my grandson to go to high school next year. Is there any reason why we can’t live without him? There is really no reason to be separated. Can two old guys who are over seventy years old still be able to walk and get out?

For their small family, they are actually fully capable of coping. I wonder, should I leave without apology and live the life I want?

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