Parenting is a long journey, and I am often very angry. Every time after scolding, I began to regret that I shouldn't have yelled at my child. Although I loved him very much, I would inadvertently destroy his heart little by little. Later, I reflected that my heart was not strong

The road to parenting is long, and I am often very angry. Every time after scolding, I began to regret that I shouldn't have yelled at my child. Although I loved him very much, I would inadvertently destroy his heart little by little.

later reflected that his heart was not strong enough and his structure was too small.

This weekend, my daughter said she wanted to shoot Douyin. She chose one and combined it with the rhythm of movements. I asked her to practice it first. She can make up her own favorite movements or add in the movements taken by others. The goal is to maintain the shooting process. The coherence of action connections. As a result, she got it right after practicing for a while. I asked her to perform it once and felt that the effect was not good. I asked her to practice it a few more times and she got it right. I spoke a bit loudly at that time, basically teaching her not to give up halfway and to back down when encountering any difficulties.

When my husband heard that my voice was a little loud, he came over and reminded me to calm down and be patient. A good child also needs patience and good parents to guide him. I calmed down instantly and lowered my voice.

It is said that a child’s character has a lot to do with the family. My daughter’s character is a little impetuous and not confident. This may have a lot to do with the fact that we often yell and scold her. Every time I think of this, I feel sorry for her and tell myself to calm down and control it. Take good care of your own emotions, be tolerant of your child's minor problems and emotions, and help guide her to correct them. The child should be allowed to make mistakes. After all, she is still a child and cannot use adults' thoughts and behaviors to demand her.

Forrest Gump's mother in "Forrest Gump" really admired her inner strength and wisdom. When the school rejected Forrest Gump because of his low intelligence, she did not give up and comforted him that he was just like ordinary people. , while working hard to find ways for A-Gump to enter this school. Because of her encouragement and gentleness, Forrest Gump lived in a loving family since he was a child. Therefore, when he grew up, he has always been kind and brave, dedicated to work, and attached great importance to love and justice. These virtues made him a legendary life.

Mother's love truly has no borders. Love is not about working hard for her all her life, but about instilling the correct outlook on her child, cultivating his good character and habits, and giving him a strong heart. These are precious treasures that will accompany him throughout his life and no one can take them away.

You should always remind yourself to open up your own pattern. Allow children to make mistakes and teach them patiently. Yelling and scolding will only make her become more rebellious, less confident, and more fragile inside.