I just accidentally saw the variety show "Daddy is in Charge" on TV. My original intention was probably to see the difficulties of a full-time father raising a child, but in the end I saw Dabao's loneliness and loneliness.
Olympic champion Wu Minxia took her husband Zhang Xiaocheng to participate in the show. It was during Wu Minxia's confinement period after giving birth to her second child. Because she needed to recuperate, Zhang Xiaocheng took care of the baby most of the time.
The scene at the beginning is still very warm. The father is playing a fishing game with Dabao's daughter. Because the daughter can't catch any fish, she immediately starts to catch fish [face covering] The father is always watching his daughter talk and interact with her tenderly.
Then, the mother came back from the confinement center with Erbao, her son, and the father immediately got up to greet the "second ancestor." Dabao obviously turned from sunny to cloudy, and he was randomly pulling toys in his hands. Later, when his father didn't come back, he opened the toys by himself. Sound effects accompany yourself.
After that, she still didn't wait for her father to come, so she just wandered around the room. No one in her family paid attention to her at this moment. The child rummaged around in loneliness and looked around.
and mumbled
"Why is it only me?"
" It’s so nice to play with me”
“Playing alone is so lonely”
At this time, the child was still in the stage of emotional accumulation and had not exploded. The later tipping point was when grandma had to squeeze into the small baby room to see her brother. This At that time, Dabao finally broke out and cried loudly
"Grandma, no, you can't do it."
I saw many people on the Internet criticizing Wu Minxia's family for favoring boys over girls. They didn't realize the mental damage caused to Dabao by the family's excessive attention to the second baby.
A child's personality is basically developed within three years of age. Parents still need to give Dabao enough care and love, otherwise they will regret it when they develop a twisted personality.
