Someone asked some young people who were unwilling to have children, "Why don't you not have children while you are still young?" The young people said, "Life is so hard, I can't afford to raise it, why do you have to have children?"
This is the true portrayal of contemporary young people. Young people in the new era want to live an independent and unrestrained life. They have one thing in common, that is, they are not concerned about external things and live out themselves. Of course, from the perspective of self-liberation and self-life, this is undoubtedly very free and easy, but for human nature, if a person does not want to bear or be responsible, it is undoubtedly very selfish, and this extremely selfish human nature has become a symbol of our era.
In recent years, policies to promote fertility have emerged one after another, but have little effect. Because they can't afford a house, they can't provide their children with a high-quality educational environment, and employment has become a cruel competition, which makes young people physically and mentally exhausted. This is the evolution direction of social emotions, which has become inverse , anxiety, disappointment, restrain desires, and finally choose to lie down completely.
Young people say that they don’t want to be born in Buddhism. In fact, this is not a rebellious thought or ambition, but just a kind of self-psychological protection. Because blind childbirth is equivalent to directly opening up the hell mode for your life, greatly reducing the quality of your life. If they give birth to a child, there will be no good educational environment in the future, and then they will follow their old path again, which is the situation they least want to see. I don’t want my child to continue walking through the suffering I suffered.
In fact, if you want to fundamentally solve this problem, you have to reduce the burden on young people and let young people see hope. Only by making social wealth distribution beneficial to young people can they dare to live and be willing to live.
Perhaps, this is the inevitable result of market economy . The population of mature market economy countries is almost not very large, and the population of developed countries like Japan is still decreasing year by year. Therefore, many people miss the past. Although they were poor at that time, they dared to give birth to their children. My grandparents' generation was still a heroic mother after giving birth to them too many.
#Yu Minhong encourages having more babies#
#Xinhua News Agency talks about why young people are unwilling to have babies#
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