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A person’s true aging is not appearance and age, but mentality.
Murakami Haruki wrote in " and listen to the wind chanting ": "As long as I always maintain a studious attitude of paying attention to everything, even aging is not a pain." The pain in life is never caused by physical aging, but due to poor mentality.
People with poor mentality will feel sad and lonely no matter what age they are. People with good mentality can still live a chic and beautiful life even if they are gray-haired.
People live, and they live in a state of mind. Life is like tasting tea. What matters is not a pot of good tea, but a good mood when drinking tea.
The best way to delay aging is to avoid all emotional worries. If you have a good mood, you can have a good life.
The mentality has always a huge impact on a person. What kind of mentality a person has usually have that kind of life.
There is no one in this world who is really in a desperate situation, but only despair and disheartened.
People live in their old state of mind. If you are over fifty years old, if you still like to do the following 4 things, it means you are still young and worth congratulations.
Can accept and be willing to learn new things
Only by constantly learning in life can you move towards a better future. Society is always developing, and the emergence of new things inevitably replaces the status of old things.
"Zengguang Xianwen" says: "Learning is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat." Those who stop learning are retreating.
If a person wants to live a wonderful life, he must constantly try new lifestyles. Accept new things and constantly learn is the only way to a new life.
With the development of the times, there will always be people who are ruthlessly eliminated. Usually, the people who are eliminated are the elderly, but some things are not absolute. The reason why those who are eliminated cannot keep up with the development of the times is not because of age, but because cognition and thoughts can no longer keep up.
Age has never been a standard for measuring the amount of knowledge. People’s cognition needs to be achieved through learning. People who always stay in the comfort zone seek temporary comfort, but reject a new life.
people, no matter what age they are, as long as they can accept and are willing to learn new things, their lives will be full of beauty.
Like exercise and refuses a lazy life
Do you know why people who exercise regularly look younger than their peers?
The reason is very simple. Exercise can improve not only the strength of the body, but also the energy and spirit.
The same person, his depressed and energetic appearance, brings a completely different feeling to others. People never rely on their appearance, but more on magnetic fields.
people don’t grow old slowly, they are something that happens in a moment. Huge blows and frustration are important reasons why a person grows older.
If you observe carefully, you will find that the more you love sports in life, the younger you look. They are not only physically strong, but also emotionally stable.
It is rare for people to have a childlike heart after adulthood. Childhood will bring people more happiness. It is also important to still be passionate after they are over fifty years old. Love makes people hardworking.
years old, the most terrible thing is not that you have endless things to do, but that you have nothing to do. After all, a lazy life is as terrible as the warm water of boiling a frog.
is full of interest in making money and does not want to rely on children
Life will inevitably fall into clichés in life. Making money can be said to run through everyone's life. Make money when you are young to live a better life, and make money when you are old to live a graceful life.
Many people think that life is a torment, so after getting married, they put all their hopes on their children. Parents like this often gradually give up their lives after their children become adults and use a bad attitude to morally kidnap children for their second half of their lives.
Those who just over 50 years old want to rely on their children to support their children usually don’t have a good life in their later years, and even more so, this operation will directly ruin the lives of their children.
In this society, everyone is living hard. Especially when people reach middle age, after getting married, they not only have to bear their own life but also raise young children. If a confused elderly person appears at home at this time, not only will he not help but also ask for a reward, this will be the most difficult time in the life of a middle-aged person.
You should know that being over fifty years old is not considered old at all. At this time, you should use your own experience and optimism to guide your adult children how to live a good life.
can easily complete the work and be happy to do housework
In life, there are always some elders who like to show off their skills. The reality is that the more you like to show off, the less reliable it is.
The happiness in life mostly comes from the fireworks. The more casual people are between people in a family, the more relaxed the atmosphere will be.
If there is an elder in the family who loves to show off, then the atmosphere of this family will be difficult to warm, and it will be full of alienation.
Youth is a spiritual outlook. If a person wants to stay young, he must not only be full of vitality, but also love life.
The old-fashioned people are not only tired of work, but also hate housework. If a person has a young heart, he can easily complete his work no matter how old he is, and is willing to do housework.
Perhaps many people can understand that completing work is young, but they are puzzled by the willingness to do housework. I even think that doing housework will reduce a person's value.
In fact, whether a person’s mentality is young and his mind is open-minded, you can see clearly by doing housework. The more feudal the thoughts pay attention to the superiority and inferiority, the younger the mentality, the more desire for independence.
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