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Some people are looked down upon, but there is actually a reason.
When you have problems with your life, others will naturally have opinions about you. If a person has an objection to you, it may not explain the problem. If your popularity becomes very poor, and there is no one around you who treats you sincerely and treats you as a friend, it means that you have more or less hurt some people, or you have certain personality defects.
If you want to be respected or respected, don’t do some things and don’t say some things. Only when you know how to restrain yourself and be responsible for yourself can you make your personality three-dimensional and complete.
. Try to say less or not. Once you say it, it may become the reason for being looked down upon.
1: Don’t talk big, people are too high-profile and ostentatious, and they often won’t have a good ending
In order to satisfy their face or vanity, some people always say unrealistic big talk, such as showing off their family background, showing off their connections, showing off their achievements, etc.
Listening to others' envy, praise or flattery for you, you may feel very happy, but in fact, you will never know who sincerely blesses you and who is superficial.
What if he was jealous of you and jealous of you, and framed you behind your back? You may not have the power to fight back.
There will be no good ending when you talk big. The higher the pronouncement and ostentatious you are, the more likely you are to cause trouble yourself. Because a big tree attracts wind, and a gun strikes the first bird, only by knowing how to keep a low profile can you go long.
2: Don’t lie, consume your character at will, and use other people’s trust will only stay away from
People will not stand without trust. A person without credit will not be convinced, and there will be no good interpersonal relationships and people who are sincerely good to you. When you lie again and again, your character has been consumed unconsciously.
You are taking advantage of other people’s trust in you, and trust is limited and cannot withstand consumption at all.
When you can never do what you promise others, others will block you in your heart. For example, if you owe money and don’t pay it back, you will find many excuses every time. No matter whether these excuses are true or false, it will make people sneer at you and look down on you in every way.
Lying itself reveals character. If you don’t even have the most basic truth and sincerity, how can you have a foothold in interpersonal communication?
3: Don’t talk crazy. The more crazy you speak, the more likely it is to cause trouble for yourself.
It’s not that you say you are not scheming or lack of mind. In short, there are always some people in life who do things without considering the consequences, and only talk about the pleasure for a moment. They don’t know how to regret it until they really get into trouble.
But so what? If there is a next time, he will still repeat the same mistake and will not have a memory at all.
For example, some people talk wildly online about what their parents do, how capable or how powerful they have, but they are targeted and investigated, and the whole family suffers.
This is the consequence of being speechless. Many times, the more crazy you speak, the more uncomfortable it is. As long as one of them has a bad idea about you, your good days will come to an end.
4: Don’t say vicious words, hurt, insult or satirize others, and look bad and stupid
Some people always use "straight-heartedness" as an excuse, say something hurtful, and say something that makes people embarrassed or even unable to come to Taiwan. Afterwards, you should say something calmly:
"I am a straight person, don’t mind."
In fact, you are not speaking straight at all, not passing through your brain, but you are simply bad at heart.
When you say those vicious words at will, insulting or saring others, you don’t know what kind of harm it will cause to others, you just don’t care.
This itself shows your character, why bother explaining it more.
If you meet such a person in life, we should avoid it. Most of them are kind-hearted and cannot have close friends.
people live for a lifetime, and the plants and trees are in autumn.
In these few decades, there is really no need for us to waste time on people who are not worth dating. If you find that someone often says something that makes you uncomfortable, then you can probably guess his character.
Since this is the case, don’t get too entangled. Keeping a distance appropriately is the best protection for yourself.
At the same time, we must also learn to encourage ourselves, know how to keep our mouths tight and not say what we shouldn’t say, especially the above four words. In order to avoid being looked down upon or disliked by others, it will affect interpersonal relationships.
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