One flower, one world, one leaf, one Bodhi. I don’t know when we have become humble and cowardly and dare not express ourselves; I don’t know when we have to follow other people’s requests and requests. But most of the troubles in life come from not refusing. You will not refuse

One flower and one world, One leaf and one Bodhi .

I don’t know when,

We become humble and cowardly,

dare not express ourselves;

I don’t know when,

I don’t know when

ask others for requests,

We always follow the rules,

don’t know how to refuse.

But most of the troubles in life,

comes from not rejecting it.

You will not refuse leadership,

Work will pile up more and more;

You will not refuse friends,

You will not refuse friends,

is afraid of losing your face;

You will not refuse strangers,

will lose your time and energy.

As people with ideas,

should learn to reject,

Learn to reject is a kind of courage,

Learn to reject is a kind of ability,

Rejection will make you feel relieved,

makes your life simple and effective,

But what kind of things should you reject,

But there are too many people who can't understand.

reject unreasonable requests

unreasonable requests,

Please refuse.

Maybe before,

You are always careful,

try your best to cater to others,

wants to integrate into them,

desires to be respected and recognized.

But with such consequences,

can only lose yourself,

lose your true thoughts,

becomes the person you hate,

lives a life that you hate.

In fact,

For unreasonable requests,

rejects them in time,

expresses your true thoughts,

may be more as you wish.

Reject help from the limit

Help beyond your ability,

Please refuse.

For the sake of face,

help others,

may always give your all,

even help beyond the boundaries,

always habitually be a good person.

But have you ever thought that

will only suffer from this,

. For real friends,

will definitely understand you,

knows your difficulties,

even if you refuse to be the one.

In fact,

helps beyond the boundaries,

affirmatively rejects,

shows his attitude,

others will not be careless.

rejects meaningless social

meaningless social

Please refuse.

Vanity is at work,

makes you want to make more friends,

may you treat each other sincerely,

want to be with each other,

becomes real friends.

But you don’t know,

how many friends are not there,

but the quality of intersecting,

You are sincerely right friends,

may only treat you as a pastime,

will be strangers when you are in trouble.

In fact,

meaningless socialization,

firmly rejected,

forms high-quality socialization,

Your sincerity will not be consumed.