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The most important thing for people to get along with each other is comfort.
Only with a comfortable relationship can we get along well and last for a long time.
When we get along with people, everyone hopes to be relaxed, comfortable, and comfortable. There is no need to please, there is no need to flatter, there is no need to please, there is no need to settle down, there is distance and a sense of decentness, there is a sense of boundaries but no loss of temperature.
There is no intrigue, no scheming, no calculating, no exploitation, no hypocrisy, but sincere, sincere, honest, honest, trusting, helping each other, understanding and tolerance.
The most comfortable relationship is to cherish each other and work hard to maintain a good relationship. If you are good to me, I can see your goodness, give each other, and treat each other sincerely. Then what can be maintained between people for a long time depends on these three sentences.
1. The most comfortable relationship between people does not have to be settled.
The most precious thing about the relationship between people is to be the real self in front of each other.
You have your goodness, and I have mine, you care about each other and respect each other. You will not interfere too much in the other party’s decisions, and you will not need the other party to settle for yourself.
doesn't have to settle down, it just doesn't have to make things difficult for the other party, and it won't force the other party to do things they don't like or want to, but respect each other, keep a distance from each other, have space, privacy and freedom.
Everyone is actually an independent individual. When we get along with each other, we are looking for a sense of comfort and a combination of things.
If you feel uncomfortable and the other party always puts pressure on yourself and always asks you to change it to what they like, then you will change it and feel wronged, so you will feel uncomfortable.
doesn’t have to settle down. Knowing how to understand and respect each other is the most comfortable relationship.
2. The most comfortable relationship between people does not need to be pleased.
I am fortunate to meet someone in this life who feels very comfortable to get along with and doesn’t need to please her.
She is knowledgeable, kind and wise, and has a good wife and mother. I have also been disconnected from her for three or five years, because we sometimes don’t contact each other for a year, but every time we meet, we will not be separated from each other.
This is the most comfortable relationship we get along with. We will not change the way we get along with each other because of whom.
God treats me well, so I can meet such a good friend in my lifetime.
The most comfortable relationship between people is that there is no need to be wronged and please the other person.
My kindness to you comes from the bottom of my heart, not because you ask me to be nice to you like this.
When you need to constantly please and cater to a relationship, then this relationship is definitely unequal.
People who really care about you do not need you to please, nor do you need to lower your attitude and dignity to cater to you, but you are reluctant to let you suffer.
people are very expensive when they live. For those who need you to deliberately please, forget it, because they will not really treat you. The more you please, the less they will take you seriously and look down on you in their hearts.
The most important thing in life is to live the way you like. You are you, a firework of different colors. You have to be the real self, and you don’t have to be the person who habitually pleases others.
Instead of pleasing others, it is better to please yourself.
3. The most comfortable relationship between people is sincere to each other.
The most important thing between people is to be sincere to each other. Only a sincere relationship is the most comfortable.
Because of sincerity, you can say something if you have something, don’t disguise or beat around the bush. You can accept my truth, and I don’t mind you telling the truth. Such a relationship is the most comfortable.
: When you have any dissatisfaction between people, say whatever misunderstandings, and when you have any misunderstandings, you can resolve them in time. Don’t keep them in your heart, and don’t always resent the other person, so as to want to take revenge on the other person.
A comfortable relationship will not involve calculating, routines, or fooling each other, but will treat each other sincerely and be reliable. You trust me and I trust you too.
Only after getting along in this way can the relationship get better and deeper.
In this life, no matter who is with or who is with, we must treat others well, not be fooled, not cheat, not cheat, have a bottom line, be proportionate, have a sense of boundaries, be honest, trust each other, and know how to respect and tolerate each other. This is the guarantee of a comfortable relationship.
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