People with good eloquence will not embarrass people and will not lose popularity even if they reject others.
1 politely refuses, such as: the boss comes to Xiao Chen, the head of the department, if something urgent is happening, Xiao Chen said, "No problem, but please understand the current situation first."
He took out his work plan and showed that the team was still working overtime and made more than 20 plans. All were agreed upon before. Then you said, this matter will take up several days.
You want us to cancel that plan to free time. Later, the boss compared it and found that Xiao Chen’s affairs were more important, so I asked Gao Ming to do it. Both parties are satisfied with this handling
first ask for the specific content and express their willingness to help. They are too busy and can do nothing. They don’t hit the smiley person and let the boss decide for themselves.
The second is to use the "breaking record" technique and repeat it and say no, there is really no way to say it repeatedly.
The third is to appropriately ridicule yourself, resolve the embarrassment of others being rejected, tease yourself, and resolve the embarrassment of rejection.
4 is the pros and cons analysis method. From his perspective, he thinks about the reasons why Qingchu is not suitable for doing this, and may lead to bad results.
5: It is really not easy to avoid the method of being vague and pretending to be confused.
6 is a deliberate way to change the topic. From the side, there will always be some differences in the process of not interacting with others, and you don’t want to answer or continue. The easiest way is to change the topic.
pretended not to hear clearly, moved to a new topic, and refused to respond. The way to say no is very particular. If you can say no clearly and not hurt your kindness, that is emotional intelligence. Rejecting people requires both courage and wisdom.
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