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As a human being, remember one sentence: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at riding.
People are very precious to be kind, but your kindness should be a little sharp, with a bottom line, principled, and appropriate. Don’t be too kind and be exploited or bullied by others. That is a kind of stupidity.
As a human being, you must know how to know people. Your kindness should be given to the right people. When you meet those who only bully you, ungrateful people, and those who use your people, exploit your people, exploit your people, and hurt you, you don’t need to be too kind or too soft-hearted to them, otherwise, they will be more arrogant and more reckless to you.
If you are kind and have no bottom line, just to accommodate others, give in, and forgive, the less others will take you seriously. One day, you will understand that kindness without sharpness is not only a kind of weakness, but also a kind of stupidity. Others will not only not appreciate you, but will also become more serious about you.
As a person, you should be stronger and have a little temper. Don’t be too kind, otherwise it will make you lose your value and dignity.
Thinking of Ma Youtii in " Hidden into the Dust Smoke ", he is too kind, and it can be said that he is too kind.
The rich man lives in a luxury house and drives a BMW, but he is unwilling to pay for blood in the hospital. Instead, he finds ways to plot against the poor, suppresses the villagers' wages, and asks the villagers to force Ma Youtie to donate blood for free to treat him.
This is actually not about Ma You Tie, but because of his kindness, he doesn't know how to reject others, so he doesn't dare to speak out or say anything if others smoke his blood.
. Rich people don’t sell cars, don’t sell houses, and don’t want to pay, so they want to ask for it from Ma Youti, but they don’t know how to give back to Ma Youti. They even despise him for being dirty when they get on the car, and they have to put a bag on their seats, as is the case when they eat.
people are too kind, they don’t care about anything, tolerate everything, and dare not speak out, and then they will only be merciless.
Ma Youtik was drawn once and he couldn't do it, but he was drawn one after another, and it was drawn more than once. He simply ignored his body and tried hard to get as much as he could. The rich man would not buy him some nutritional supplements to replenish his body.
So, people who are too kind, when you don’t take back what they originally belong to and don’t know how to consider yourself, then no one will care about you. Those who exploit you will ignore your life or death.
When the horse has sold all the wheat, the buyer bullied him kindness and even squeezed him out of the last digit instead of giving him one more dollar, which made him lose four dollars.
The kinder you are and the less you know how to protect your own interests, the less others will be soft-hearted to you.
On the contrary, if you are tough and have a temper, fight for what you should, don’t tolerate what you shouldn’t, don’t tolerate what you shouldn’t, don’t tolerate what you shouldn’t, don’t tolerate what you shouldn’t, don’t tolerate what you shouldn’t be tolerant, don’t tolerate what you shouldn’t be tolerant.
Because sometimes you don’t care about the kindness you give, and you won’t be seen at all, but think you should do it.
The kind horse has iron, even a swallow sympathizes with it, and even the weak tadpole releases the animals. He is always very nice to people, but no one is good to him. Even his biological brother wanted to exploit him and treat him harshly, so he bullied him kindness.
Ma Youtien worked as a long-term worker in his brother's house for so many years. He is a free slave. He neither receives wages nor has a good face, and he doesn't even give him food.
When Ma Youtien went to his neighbor's house to watch TV, the neighbor scolded him, saying that you have worked for your brother for half his life, and he has not even arranged a TV for you.
In fact, Ma Youti is too kind, too honest, obedient, dare not make conditions with others, dare not fight for power and profit for himself, and even he is not doing well. He still wants to save others, but no one remembers his goodness.
People are too kind and too honest, and it is difficult to be treated kindly by others. His wife accidentally fell into the water. Everyone was watching, but no one went to save her. She watched Ma Youtie's wife drowned in the water.
Why do kind people often have no good rewards? It is because once kindness loses its edge, it becomes worthless.
People are alive. If your kindness cannot be treated sincerely, if you compromise and blindly give in and accommodate, you will always be stepped on by others.
There is a saying that when you are a little cruel, the whole world will make way for you.
So, only when you dare to show off your fangs can the world become gentle and elegant.
Bomboni once said: "Kindness is very precious, but if kindness does not grow teeth, it is weakness."
There is nothing wrong with kindness, but you cannot have no bottom line and you cannot be blindly kind. Your kindness should be a little sharp.
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