Optimism, as one of the most positive factors among people's personalities, is to maintain a good attitude no matter how difficult the environment is, believing that everything will pass and that difficulties and setbacks are only temporary. In our lives, optimism is like a clear spring that will never dry up, always bringing us a refreshing taste and fresh vitality.
Optimistic people do not always have smooth sailing. They also have the same troubles and anxieties as us. They also face various problems at work, family, and marriage every day. It’s just that these optimistic people are willing to think one step more than us and think more than we do. Just richer! They are not the lucky ones chosen by God, but they have become the lucky ones themselves!
There were two thieves. When they ran away after stealing, they passed by the execution ground. Thief A said: If there was not such a place, how comfortable our life would be! The thief asked: If there are no more of these things, will it be our turn to do this?
Two young people were hit by a car on their way home from get off work. Fortunately, the electric car was only smashed, but they were unharmed! One of them, Xiao Meng, said: Why am I so arrogant about this? Something like this happened right after I got off work, and my car was even smashed! But another Xiao Liu said: I'm so lucky. My electric car was smashed, but nothing happened to me. Thank God, thank God!
The same thing, the same scene and environment, but why are there two different answers? So can we boldly assume that these two different mentalities also determine their two different lives?
Many things in life are so simple. For a small thing, if you look at it with an optimistic attitude, you can always find positive factors; but if you look at it with a pessimistic perspective, you can only see the negative and dark side.
The ancients said that nine times out of ten life will be unsatisfactory. This is an objective existence. It's the same for everyone. It won't change based on one person's will, but we can completely change it by changing our attitude and look at it with an optimistic attitude.
In fact, being immersed in pessimism will not make any changes in things. It will only make unsatisfactory things even more unsatisfactory, just like if you hate someone, you will become more and more disgusted with it. Since pessimism won't help, why don't we face it with an optimistic attitude? Even so, nothing will change, but at least we will feel more comfortable.
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