Is there a person who has been with you throughout your youth? When you mention his name, you will show him off unconsciously and regard it as your pride. Later, you put him into your memories and turned him into a thorn in your heart, never touching him again.
then understand that many stories do not have a happy ending, and you no longer have any identity to participate in his future.
has regrets, but not regrets.
Although there is a happy ending between you, you loved hard when you loved each other, and you also said goodbye seriously when you parted.
If you can love it, you can lose it; if you can take it, you can let it go.
In fact, no one can guarantee that every story will have a perfect ending, but they can guarantee that every period of life will be lived seriously.
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Loved, missed, lost, every experience is its own memory, and every feeling is a unique treasure.
If you look at life in the long run, maybe those roses that withered prematurely, which you regret, are also the nutrients of life.
All losses will return to our lives in another way. Don't care about temporary gains and losses.
Don’t be happy when you gain, don’t be sad when you lose, don’t be shocked by honor or disgrace, don’t care about leaving or leaving, and your life will be more comfortable.
Only by accepting everything that has happened, admitting loss, and accepting loss can life be richer.
Face up to what you have lost calmly, do not dwell on it, do not get entangled. Only at the moment when you let go of the loss can your life regain new possibilities.
From the moment you let it go, you truly face the lost past and truly bid farewell to the past and own the past.
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Those stories that have happened are like a paradise sealed deep in the heart, and will never be affected by the wind and rain of the world.
Those beautiful things can still nourish your life and illuminate your dark nights when life is bleak.
Those sufferings can also help your life to solve all problems when you experience ups and downs.
Don’t worry about the final outcome. The most important thing in life is not what you have lost, but what you have.
Only by facing it bravely and losing calmly can you regain your future.
is like the vegetation in late autumn. From the moment it withers, it begins to save energy and rush to the next spring, treating the loss as an energy reserve period.
You must know that the total picture of life is what you have and what you have lost.
When I stand at the end of the years and look back at the past, I find that the troubles that once troubled my heart are also the good old days that belong only to us.
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Regarding loss and possession, I have seen this sentence before: Losing and possessing, losing is on the left hand, possession is on the right hand. Both hands are the same, but many people tend to ignore what they have in their right hand and only care about what they lose in their left hand.
In fact, life is just like the left and right hands, consisting of two parts, what has been lost and what we currently have. This is our entire life.
The most precious thing in this world is not "cannot get" or "lost", but what is already owned.
Grasping the present is the only thing we can truly grasp. Only by owning the present can you truly live in the present moment.
Life is full of chaos, let the past go with the wind, get together and disperse as you wish, gain and lose as you wish.
Cherish what we have and grasp our present. Losing is also a kind of gain.
Treat what we have lost as a pavement for life, leading to our future step by step.
About the author: Yan Mu, freelance writer. Write about the desolate human world with a warm pen.
