I read the book " lives " a few years ago, and since then I have not dared to read it a second time, for fear that I would cry again.
This book left a very deep impression on me, no less than "White Night Walk" and " The Kite Runner ".
So, even if I don’t read this book now, I still clearly remember the content in the book.
Fugui's life was simply too bitter. Originally, his whole family was neat and tidy, but he didn't expect that his whole family left him one after another. In the end, only Fugui himself and the old cow who accompanied him were left.
Today, I didn’t read this book. I just sorted out my notes from a few years ago. I found that many of the sentences I underlined in the book are full of life philosophy.
01 People live for living itself, not for anything other than living.
I don’t know if you have ever asked yourself the meaning of living. I have thought about this question before.
My idea is that I live to experience the ups and downs of this world.
When I saw this sentence today, I understood that in the end we only live for the sake of living itself, not for anything else.
02 The title of this work is "Live". As a word, "Live" is full of power in our Chinese language. Its power does not come from shouting or attacking, but from enduring, enduring the responsibilities that life gives us, and enduring the happiness and suffering, boredom and mediocrity that reality gives us.
I really have to admire the author's insight, it is simply too strong! As expected of Yu Hua teacher!
This sentence is simply too vivid, too helpless, and too sad!
The ancestors of the past, including us now, life is really about being able to endure everything, no matter good or bad, endure it with all your strength.
03Nothing is more convincing than time, because time can change everything without notifying us.
This sentence reminds me of the linguist Mr. Ji Xianlin. He once said:
"Time never speaks, but it answers all the questions."
In this world, there is really nothing more cruel than time. Before you know it, it will steal everything from you.
There is nothing one can do but let it pass slowly.
04 People’s experience and desires as well as imagination and understanding will cancel all different boundaries and allow a person to feel his own destiny from the experiences of others, just like seeing his own image in different mirrors.
This is why people say that reading is like a journey, walking the path that others have taken from the book.
Feel the fate of others in order to guide your own life and slowly improve yourself.
05 Life belongs to everyone’s own feelings and does not belong to anyone else’s opinions.
It turns out that I am particularly concerned about what others think of me, which puts a lot of pressure on myself for no reason.
Later, I realized that instead of trying to please others, it is better to be true to yourself, so that people will relax.
How everyone lives is known only to the person concerned and not to others.
So, don’t care about other people’s opinions, and don’t interfere with commenting on other people’s lives.
After all, the feelings of life need to be experienced by yourself and have nothing to do with others.
06 As long as people live happily, they are not afraid of poverty.
It turns out that I thought that as long as I stay away from poverty, I would live happily.
Later, I realized that my idea was wrong, and material satisfaction did not make me live happily.
On the contrary, only spiritual abundance makes me feel happy.
So, it really doesn’t matter if people are poor, it’s mainly because people should live happily!
07 If people are so tired that they have no energy all day, they will not think about it.
Yang Jiang There is a saying that goes very well:
"Your problem is mainly because you read too little and think too much."
Many times, it is because we are too idle that we will think randomly.
When you are too busy and exhausted, you have no intention to think about it.
So, sometimes people can’t be too idle, too idle will cause problems, so you should be busy and focus on doing things, so you won’t think too much!
08 No matter how big a person's life is, if he wants to die, he will never be able to survive.
If a person is determined to die, even if there are ten thousand people around him to dissuade him, he will not be able to stop the tragedy.
From another perspective, if a person wants to survive, even if there are thousands of people around him, it will not change his determination to survive!
So, life is your own, how to live it has nothing to do with others!
09 You should not forget four things in life. Don’t say the wrong words, don’t sleep in the wrong bed, don’t step on the wrong threshold, and don’t touch the wrong pocket.
This sentence is the principle of being a human being exchanged for by Fugui's personal experience. It is still very applicable now!
people must have principles and bottom lines when they live, otherwise they will suffer a great loss sooner or later! Just like fortune!
As a person, you must always remember that you can eat randomly, but you must pay attention to what you should say, what you should not say, you must remember that too much will lead to mistakes!
A person who does not stick to his own marriage will eventually suffer the consequences!
I will eventually regret it if I choose not to return!
10 The boy went wandering, middle-aged people wanted to dig the Tibetans, and old people became monks.
This sentence is a portrayal of Fugui's life and also the experience of each of us.
people are like this. When they were young, they wanted to walk around and see the world.
When I reach middle age, the burden on myself becomes heavier, and the responsibility becomes more, and all I think about is how to make money.
When I am old, everything changes in my mind and I am thinking about living the current life safely!
So, you must be clear about what you should do!
and everyone encourage you!
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