28 life skills
1. Be kind to others.
Always show your smile. This is the basic high emotional intelligence and sophistication.
2. Everyone likes to wear a high hat,
so, say more good things and praise others,
don’t be embarrassed.
3. Help people when you can.
Helping others is not only a kind of happiness, but also a kind of human sophistication with high emotional intelligence. When you help others, it means that others owe you a favor, and it will be easier for you to talk when you have something to do in the future.
4. When you have nothing to say,
would rather remain silent than talk boring and tasteless nonsense.
5. The speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention.
When what you say involves others, be careful and don't let others take advantage of you.
6. Knowing how to laugh at yourself,
is a sign of high emotional intelligence and can effectively alleviate the embarrassment of yourself and others.
7. Be a low-key person.
Be humble. Don't try to steal the limelight, especially the meaningless limelight. Don't try to steal it.
8. Respect everyone you meet,
no matter what he does, no matter what class he is in,
no matter how good you are. Give enough, at least on the surface.
Respect, this is not hypocrisy, but human nature.
9. Control your emotions and temper.
Don't get angry easily, let alone vent your bad emotions and temper to others.
10. No matter what happens,
the volume and speed of speaking should be kept normal. Don't give people the feeling of being irritated or unable to hold your breath.
11. Don’t forcefully persuade someone.
Persuasion is not persuasion. If you have to ask others to do what you want,
it will only inspire rebellious psychology and lead to resentment in others.
12. The so-called high emotional intelligence means being able to speak,
and speaking should be concise and to the point. Don't make long and endless speeches. Not many people have the patience to listen to your verbosity.
13. If you show weakness appropriately,
you can take off other people's defensiveness; if you show weakness appropriately, you can avoid many unnecessary contradictions and conflicts.
14. Don't inquire about other people's privacy casually.
If they ignore you, you will be embarrassed. If they give you a bad look,
or even fall out with you, you will be even more embarrassed.
15. Don't argue with others over trivial matters,
and don't argue with others. It has no meaning other than hurting friendship.
16. Be polite to others,
be polite and courteous. As long as you do this, you can easily win the love of most people.
17. Don't make fun of other people's shortcomings,
otherwise, you may become a joke!
18. If you have agreed to someone else's request,
don't say ugly words. This is a sign of low emotional intelligence.
19. Know how to say no, and don’t be a good person or a bad person. Don't be a hand-in-hand party, no one is obligated to help you for free.
20. If you make a mistake,
you must admit it promptly and bravely, and don't quibble.
21. Don’t tell others about things you are unsure about.
If you are slapped in the face, you will be embarrassed and will make others think you are unreliable.
22. Brag less and talk less.
Don’t do this even if you are chatting with friends or talking about big things.
23. When you encounter villains, walk around them.
Try to stay away from them. Don't offend villains unless you have to, and don't try to influence villains. Otherwise, it will be in vain.
24. People are under the roof and living under the fence of others.
You must know how to bow your head proactively, compromise when you need to, and give in when you need to. After all, the situation is stronger than the person.
25. Be generous.
Don't be petty and care about everything with others. Otherwise, you really won't have many friends.
26. Lying is definitely not worth advocating,
but if it is for a good intention, or to protect yourself without hurting others, you can tell some harmless lies.
27. Develop empathy skills.
Know how to put yourself in someone else's perspective and be able to consider issues from the perspective of others. This will make it easier to win the recognition and favor of others.
28. Read more books on emotional intelligence and human sophistication.
Whether it is emotional intelligence or human sophistication, there are very practical interpretations and sharings in the book.
believes that the above content will definitely enlighten your wisdom.
will point out the direction for your life and make your future no longer confused.
