1. One is to find the right lover, and the other is to find the right career, because when the sun rises, you must devote yourself to your career, and when the sun sets, you must embrace your lover. We have been looking for two things throughout our lives, one is a sense of value and the other is a sense of belonging. A sense of value comes from being affirmed, and a sense of belonging comes from being loved.
2. When a person grows up, he must accept some facts: some people who were once very close in their lives have now parted ways, and there is nothing to be embarrassed to admit. It is no benefit to keep telling yourself that "friendship lasts forever", which makes both sides very painful.
3. Optimism and love are the antidotes to life. Be your own dreams, go your own way, always love life, and always look forward to tomorrow.
4. The best situation in life is not poetry, nor is it in the strange distance, but in calming down and discovering: everything familiar in front of you is where your heart goes.
5. Action is the best medicine to cure fear, and hesitation and procrastination will continue to nourish fear.
6. If the heart knows each other, there will be tacit understanding without words; if the love is favored by others, there will be pity without words. Many times, we are looking for people to talk to. Some words will collapse when you hold them in your heart and need to be said; some things you carry on your shoulders are pressure and need to be shared.
7. Take down your face, put it in your pocket, and face it plain, and you will find that life is really not that heavy.
8. A person’s wealth comes from his suffering and hardship, and also from his acceptance of a simple life. ——Saint Exuperi "Night Voyage"
9. I am in my thirties. I have not returned the grace of raising me, and I have to fulfill the responsibility of raising me. When a person reaches a certain age, he is the eaves of himself and can no longer hide from the rain.
10. Things in the world are like wild dogs, life ends withering, but in the impermanence, pursuing eternal and gorgeous extension of life is preserved in our cultural memory. We cannot see our hometown at all, but looking up, we are in the same starry sky.
11. Happiness is nothing more than four things: one is to sleep in your own bed; two is to eat dishes made by your parents; three is to listen to your lover’s love words; four is to play games with your children. —— Lin Yutang
12. Time passes quietly. Some people in the world feel the heavy life because of their busyness, while others live depressed because of their leisure. ——Luyao "Ordinary World"
13. Sometimes, you want to prove it to ten thousand people, but later, you find that you only have one person who understands it, that is enough. —— Han Han
14. As long as you are a person with a good heart, even if you are used to seeing the gatherings and separations in the world, you still maintain the yearning and persistence for love in your heart.
15. The rest of your life is long. Don’t explain everything in advance. Enjoy the scenery while walking. Take everything slowly.
16. The courage at the age of 18 has been used up. The willfulness at the age of 20 has already withdrawn its sword. On the way to three, I think twice before taking action, lose again, accept again, and grow again...
17. Finding the reason from yourself in everything is a person's top practice. Life is full of cause and effect. Instead of throwing stones elsewhere, it is better to ask yourself for directions.
18. If your heart is wild, you can't read it, and you don't have the heart to work. You are only suitable for sitting in the wilderness day after day, melting again and again in the gaps between dusk and night. It will be difficult for you to return to the real world, pick up your ambition, and work hard to be a worldly successful person. —— Chen Chuncheng "Zhufeng Temple"
19. Life is to work hard and work harder. If you work hard in another place, you don’t dare to tell your family. Only when you have a certain foundation can you dare to say it. I really can. ——Yi Shoulong
20. If your heart knows each other, you will have a tacit understanding without words; if your love is favored by others, you will have a pity without words. Many times, we are looking for people to talk to. Some words will collapse when you hold them in your heart and need to be said; some things you carry on your shoulders are pressure and need to be shared.
