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Thomas Hardy said in "The Unknown Jude":
All things in the world are born and destroyed by destiny, and no one can change it.
Destiny is often like this. Many times people have to leave it to fate, just as death is bound to come, and the rest are also gifts of fate, everything is already destined.
There are too many people who think they can change their destiny, so they are unwilling to admit their ordinaryness.
But reality will teach them a lesson, letting them know that in this life, everything is fate, and there is no way to help others. Whether it is love or hate, it will eventually go with the wind. In the documentary "Mongolian Grassland, Sunny Weather", the experience of the Pujie family broke the hearts of netizens.
All of people who have watched this movie sighed: Everyone's life will change because of the people he meets and what he encounters.
is really: everything is fate, no one can do anything.
In this life, who will you meet and what kind of life you will encounter is actually destined.
Pujie's father went to work in Ulaanbaatar when she was still young and never returned. She and her mother and grandmother depended on each other. At the age of young Pujie learned to ride a horse and drive sheep and shoulder the heavy responsibility of life for her mother and grandmother.
However, The house was leaking and raining all night, and the horse thief targeted Pujie's family without a strong labor force and stole all 37 horses from their house on a dark and windy night.
Although Pujie's mother tried hard to chase after the incident, it was still useless in the end and the horse was lost.
Because there was no horse to help drive the sheep, the sheep in the family could not be driven to the place where the winter was spent by the power of his mother and Pujie. Therefore, the flock of sheep froze to death and ran away. In the end, there were very few left, and Pujie's family also suffered heavy losses.
"The hemp rope is just to pick up the details, and the bad luck is just to pick people who are suffering." If you just lose the flock, it doesn't matter, because these things are all things outside of your body. Even without these sheep, Pujie's family will not be unable to survive.
But one day, Pujie's mother fell off the horse's back.
Because I felt it was not serious and there was no money in the family, Pujie's mother did not go to the hospital for treatment, but just felt that she had endured it and passed it.
When I started to feel uncomfortable, it was too late. In this way, Pujie's mother passed away and left Pujie's life early.
Grandma and Pujie began to live a life of dependence. Pujie made a wish to learn Japanese in the future for the person who filmed the documentary, the Japanese explorer Yoshiharu Kano, to learn Japanese.
Just when everything seemed to be about to return to normal, Pujie had a car accident the day before the junior high school entrance examination. This car accident took Pujie's young life away. After Pujie left, grandmother's life became completely dull. The story of the documentary ends here. People can't help but sigh at the tragic fate, not giving this family a little chance to breathe, always giving a little hope and extinguishing hope, and finally making people completely lose their expectations for tomorrow.
The Pujie family in the documentary is hospitality, optimistic and cheerful, and always faces the difficulties of life with a positive attitude. A family like
is ordinary but happy, and life should be smooth. Even if there are minor twists and turns, it can end quickly with the concerted efforts of the whole family.
However, fate did not favor them, and they did not avoid losing their husband, mother, father, and son. Everything can only make people sigh that "everything is fate."
It turns out that what kind of destiny a person will experience in his life is really not at all by himself.
" Dream of Red Mansions " has three main characters that left a deep impression on readers from ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, namely Jia Baoyu , Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai . The story of the three is to be a common saying, "love triangle".
Baoyu and Daiyu love each other, and their family background is similar. Daiyu is also Baoyu's cousin. In the background of that era, this pair of good people are all made of heaven.
Xue Baochai belongs to the "third party" between them. Although Baoyu does not love her, compared with Daiyu, Baochai is open-minded, generous and wise, and understands the worldly style. In the eyes of elders, this is the wife who deserves Baoyu, and this is the woman Baoyu should marry.
So, they took the initiative to trick Baoyu into marrying Baochai. At the moment when they opened the veil, Baoyu went crazy, Daiyu died, and Baochai's life completely became a tragedy of .
At this moment, fate has told them, so what about love and hate? Life is not dominated by love and hate. Love does not necessarily lead to good results, and hatred does not mean that you can never be together.
"Dream of Red Mansions" begins with a myth, which also implies the fate of the protagonist in the story. Baoyu in his previous life watered Daiyu, who was still a herb, and let it grow, so Daiyu in this life must repay Baoyu's kindness with all her tears.
Daiyu is not crying, but these tears have long been destined and must be shed for Baoyu, so even if they love each other, they have no chance to stay together.
So, what about love and hate in a person’s life?
Everything has long been destined. If you are destined, you will meet even if you are thousands of miles apart. If you are not destined, even if you are in front of you and love each other sincerely, you may still be separated by one side.
In this life, everything is fate, and there is no way to control others. Love and hate are the least important things, because fate never perceives your love and hate, nor does it care about your love and hate. It will only act according to its arrangements.
In this life, everything is fate, no matter how hard you have to endure, you will never lose a little, and you will never run away a little of the blessings you want to enjoy. Fate has long destined the number of good and bad things for you. Even if it is unfair, you have no choice.
Therefore, is worse than to fight the death with the same fate. It is better to let things go. Taking love, hate, gains and losses lightly, and may alleviate the pain of loss. If you really cannot let go, it is better to do more good deeds, not to get a blessing, but to alleviate the resentment and injustice in your heart.
