Where have your time gone? Is it that I am wandering day after day every day, like a top, or that I am deeply trapped in the trivialities of life every day when I open my eyes, which makes me exhausted physically and mentally, or I do nothing all day long, lying down to browse my mobile phone, watching soap operas, chatting about entertainment gossip, and passing the boring days.
When you spend your time on your phone a day except for the time you really work, the time you spend on your phone is 4 hours, 5 hours, or even 6 hours. Apart from eating and sleeping, who stole our time? Is it really a mobile phone that "don't leave your phone"? No, it is because we are not self-disciplined, it is because our time is too worthless.
Just imagine how long it took you to finish a book, how long it has been for you to look back at the road you have walked, how long it has been for you to spend time with your family and children. Some people say that wherever your time goes, your future will definitely go. When a person can reduce material desires, filter appropriately, lose burdens, and nourish his spirit, what awaits him is a series of dazzling scenery.
A few days ago, a blogger shared with me his experience:
Once, he needed to collect and review a material at night. What was the result?
A sudden news popped up. As he checked, he went to read the news and gossip. Finally, he browsed all the gossips for 3 hours in the evening.
In fact, each of us will be laughed at by our nipples without realizing it.
Nipple music has a very great effect, which makes people waste a lot of time in rough and vulgar entertainment, are not enterprising, lose their independent thinking ability, and gain temporary happiness. For example, opening up the porn industry and games, and engaging in endless war of words, such as soap operas, gossip and other programs. In short, it is enough to make 80% of people addicted to this kind of "play nipples".
The male lead of the TV series " Bottom Line " Fang Yuan (played by Jin Dong ) is an excellent people's judge. He is not only fair in handling cases, but also is approachable in communication with subordinates. He never puts on airs and goes to the service hall to help whenever he has time. Fang Yuan is affectionately called "Aunt Fang" by everyone.
However, in handling a divorce case for couples, Fang Yuan awarded the child to his mother based on the situations learned from all aspects and the child's wishes. Fang Yuan thought he was handling the case according to the procedures. When making a judgment, he also asked the parties about the opinions. He did not say it was absolutely fair, but it also satisfies most people. It is such a case that Fang Yuan thought that all parties were satisfied with, but was complained by the plaintiff and the defendant at the same time.
It turned out that on the day of the court, the child lied, but Yin was because his mother promised his son that if he chose to follow him, he would take him to Disneyland to play. But after the sentence, the child regretted it. During the retrial judgment of the Court's Audit Committee, the child was finally re-ordered to the father.
The blow to Fang Yuan was too deep. That night, Fang Yuan returned home and cried like a child. At this moment, Fang Yuan was confused. What is the purpose of him doing this day and night? What is the purpose of? What's the point of doing this? At this moment, it was like a deflated ball, losing its target and having to throw it into the corner to eat ashes.
John Lennon once said: "When we are running for life, life has left us." When we lay on our bed on our phones all night, we don't know what to do for hours, and then we have to rest. Day after day, year after year, we have become lying prisoners, deeply trapped in the quagmire of depravity. If this continues, it will be like a walking zombie.
Put down your phone and don’t be a head-down person; learn to be alone and stay away from boring social circles. Being proficient in the heart and simplifying in the body is the highest state of life.
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Article | Mu Zi
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