Even though we do not have the leisure of Tao Yuanming "Picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, leisurely seeing the southern mountains", there is no peace of Meng Haoran "Old friend has chickens and millet, invite me to the field home", there is no calmness of Liu Zongyuan " An old man in a boat, a straw hat, , fishing alone in the cold river snow", but we must also try to learn to be calm and refuse to be impetuous.
To reject impetuousness, you must avoid exaggeration. No matter how gorgeous the words are, they cannot resist the true feelings. Abandon all the glitz-like embellishments on the surface. Only by seeing the essence of things clearly. On the construction site, there were three workers digging trenches. One person was arrogant and arrogant and would say, "A person who is so capable will definitely become a big boss in the future!" The second person complained about it because he felt it was hard and kept complaining. Only the third person did not say a word, and worked hard in his sweat, thinking about how to make the foundation stronger. Three years later, the first person was still working on digging trenches, the second person could not bear the hard work, falsely reported work injuries, and received a meager pension every month, while the third person had become the boss of a construction company... Only by taking every step steadily can we move towards our goals step by step. Therefore, we must reject impetuousness and let go of superficial exaggeration.
To reject impetuousness, you must learn to be calm. Keep a calm mind and be calm in the world, "not be happy with things, not be sad with yourself." Daiyu Burial flowers, even though they are sad and beautiful, they are sad and sad for the life journey that natural creatures must go through, and even their qi and blood are too impetuous? I once heard this saying: "A person has one heart, but two atria. He lives on one side and sadness. Don't laugh too loudly when you are happy, otherwise it will wake up the sadness next door." I think it's right. Fan Jin's passing of the judging is a good example. Fan Jin studied hard for many years and finally won the exam. He was too excited and went crazy because he valued fame and fortune too seriously. Therefore, let us learn to take the world lightly and treat life with a peaceful heart, so that we will not form a strong gap between hope and disappointment.
To reject impetuousness, you must try to be open-minded. Haizi 's "Facing the sea, spring flowers blooming" impressed me deeply. Yes, open your heart and you will find that there are beautiful scenery everywhere in life and warm laughter in life at all times! In the journey of life, some people stare at their destination, and become worried and depressed when encountering obstacles. Instead of doing this, why not relax your heart and see the scenery along the way; watch the tide rise and fall, the geese go and come, and hear the birds singing and the flowers scent along the way? Maybe you will find another small path that can lead to your destination. Therefore, we must refuse to be impetuous and enjoy life open-mindedly.
Reject impetuousness and live peacefully in the complex world, with more poetry, more free and more vast sea and sky. Let yourself break free from the hustle and bustle, let your mind reach an empty and quiet state, and pursue spiritual paradise!
