often thinks that everyone has their own life and some emotions can only be digested by themselves. As we get older, the fewer friends around us. Even if we are full of thoughts, we don’t know who to talk to. We always feel that it will be useless if we don’t get a response. We all live in our own world, too far away from other people’s lives, without the so-called resonance, and we can understand the implications of others’ every time we talk. Sometimes, even if we find the person who is willing to listen to your nagging, we may not be able to actually help ourselves solve problems.
When confiding begins to become a meaningless thing, the confidant himself has less desire to confidate, so people become more lonely as they grow up. After growing up, there is a moment when all emotions need to be digested by themselves, that is the first real growth. It turns out that growth is a process of constantly becoming heavy and calm.
In recent years, as we grow older, as we spend a long time alone, our life experiences have become more and more abundant, and our views on some people and things have become much more rational, and we have begun to understand how to look at things from multiple perspectives. I think that compared to our friends at home, we are obviously growing more when working hard outside.
Sometimes, I will contact my friends at home. Sometimes some topics seem to be chatting happily, but they can clearly feel that the angle and direction of our consideration of the problem have begun to become different. No one cares about each other's answers. Everyone just expresses themselves in a mess. Later, some contacts seem to be too much, but in fact, the distance in their hearts is getting farther and farther away. Perhaps the real loneliness is because no one understands what you mean anymore.
Follow friends, more of a temporary connection, and there is no need to have too many expectations. Most of the people who can get together and accompany each other through decades of life are fate, but the so-called like-mindedness is hard to come by. Sometimes, just one distance is enough to change many things. Now most of the friends around you who have been more than ten years old are not by your side. Some people seem to be unable to get away. After all, there are several years of emotional foundations that have been settled there, but they will go further and further! It seems that after everyone has their own lives, they are a little alienated. They don’t say it, but they can clearly feel it in their hearts.
After confirming that I would not go back, I probably said my final farewell to them. In fact, I cherish the friendship that can be maintained during the campus period. Most of the friendships that can be maintained have been considered in time. But friends are more of a kind of meeting each other for a group to keep warm and get to know each other. Later, everyone's life directions are different, so naturally they cannot avoid the ending of drifting away. Maybe at a certain stage of time, it is the only and firm choice for each other, but after that stage, they will gradually tend to be peaceful and will experience the stage from loss to calm acceptance.
is that we have high expectations for friendship and overestimate the relationship between two people. The person who knows me best in this world is always myself. Later, in a day when I had no friends, I seemed to have learned how to better handle every relationship around me. Those words that say friendship lasts forever gradually disappeared into each other's lives. There is nothing unchanging in this world, and naturally there will be no permanent strong relationship. It's good to get used to it. When I feel disappointed, I start to let go.
I have also looked forward to an eternal relationship, and I once thought that they are the most irreplaceable people in my life, and I once thought that we can go very far, maybe what time really changes is not necessarily us, but me! It was my state of mind that changed, so I felt that many things had changed. I was the only one who silently did the farewell. Later, after being exhausted from family affection, I realized that friendship was not a life-saving straw, and no one could become my safe haven. Sometimes, I just needed to have the courage to stand up calmly to shelter myself from the wind and rain. Later, I often felt desperate about things in the world, and often felt that my life was meaningless, I often lost my direction in my own world, and often began to doubt the meaning of living.
When you are in a bad mood, you feel that the whole world owes you. When you are in a good mood, you feel that the whole world is bright. It is probably a repeated transition between good and bad emotions. Therefore, you can clearly understand yourself. You are also a very stubborn and brave girl in your bones, but you also have sentimental sentimentality. You are also a person who is easily emotional. Maybe you have been facing life for too long and will habitually reject all the care around you. Maybe you are a person who has not been loved well. You are insecure at the beginning, so you are always looking for a sense of balance in your life.
I have always been an independent person and like to live alone. The quiet personality in my bones will not be easily influenced by secular life. I don’t know why I can persist in being myself for so many years. Maybe I am not a person who likes to pursue fame and fortune. It seems that I always need this kind of reflection and awakening to balance my life. Only after anatomy and reviewing too much can I understand what I want. Occasional confusion is mostly dissatisfaction with the status quo. I have always cherished everything I have now. After all, I have not been easy for me along the way. People with low starting points will clearly remember that every difficult thing I have along the way is now at a critical point at the intersection of life. On the one hand, I have to say goodbye to the memories of the past, and on the other hand, I cannot see the future development clearly.
I worked hard for a long time before I escaped from such a circle. Although I have not achieved anything great at this stage, I have truly left a place and stayed away from a thought. It turns out that this is the meaning of growth. I have the courage to choose my life and don’t have to go back to that place and accept that thought again. I am lucky. I am lucky than many people, because I have stopped and stopped all the way and never lost myself. Even when I was reviewing myself, I have never regretted the past. I am very grateful to myself who has been through countless moments before. Life is always getting better and better. But when I started to have my own life, I realized how stupid the idea of treating my home as a safe haven in those years was, but people will go through that stage of childishness, and there will be a process of expectation and disappointment. The growth of ordinary people, there is no vigorous family turmoil, and there are just one or two lost moments. Maybe it was because I was in a bad mood that day and had always been used to compromise, and finally decided not to give in.
