No one is perfect. Born in the world, you always have to pay the price to survive.
Everyone’s shortcomings are the conditions for this price. For example, some people are very weak, and when they encounter some problems that need to stand up and express themselves and emphasize their own interests, they will often suffer great losses and suffer silence. They hate themselves for being weak, but there is no reason for regret in life.
They know it, but they are just clear.
Many people will understand a lot of truths after experiencing some things, and will understand what they should do and what they shouldn’t do. However, their shortcomings make them unable to do even if they understand what they should do. Once the time is "ripe" (such as emotional stimulation, or stimulation of some factors),
will do it without hesitation and will do it if they regret it.
This is the price of no one being perfect:
We once thought that only bad people would pay the price for their behavior, but when we see those kind faces with tears on their faces and those Akagi's hearts gradually stop beating, we realize that
It turns out that the matter of paying the price is never distinguished from "good or bad".
Kindness is a virtue, virtue can be praised, but at the same time, there are also some people who use such virtues for personal gain.
Many people have just entered society, experienced hard work and suffered losses and were deceived, and the first point of change is that they have become less kind.
This does not mean that they have become bad, but that they no longer look at all people and things with a kind attitude and a kind look.
Because they find that once they show a kind image, they will be exploited by those.
You are kind, some people will use your kindness to make you do more and do more things. Your hard work and fatigue will only receive their superficial comfort.
You are kind, some people will use your kindness to make profits from you. They care about your requests, constantly seeking, trying to squeeze out all your value, and then use the "so-called ways of right and wrong" to tell you that you don't understand, you can't do it.
Kindness is constantly exploited. When there is no bottom line, the heaven is fair and the earth contempts right and wrong. No one will stand up to help those kind people, help them get them back, and help them.
Is there anyone? No one.
When kind people find that people around them will only look at them with cold eyes and lose their true hearts and motivation to continue to be kind. Those arrogant words are late at this moment:
"This is society, it is normal for good people to suffer losses."
"You are stupid and you can't blame others!"
"You are stupid and you can't blame others!"
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"You don't understand at all, you deserve to be deceived and bullied."
The double blow of public opinion and reality made kind people begin to doubt what their kindness is for and what their kindness brings to themselves. So, doubt became suspicion, doubt, and eventually turned into a complete negation:
We do not do evil, but that kind of pure kindness?
Whoever wants to do it will do it.
If you are too emotional, you will be hurt by love. This is because today's feelings do not take emotional recognition as the core condition.
One person likes another, eye fate is the judgment of emotional cognition, whether you can continue,
is a game of many complex factors.
This leads to many feelings showing such a manifestation: at first, the burnout period is vigorous, and each other is spying on each other (I originally wanted to use temptation, but after thinking about it, spying may be more appropriate) The struggle period is coming, one person wishfully believes, one person conceals regardless of hiding,
One person is too honest, one person is too routine,
One person insists on ignoring, and one person leaves "incredible".
People who are too emotional are not ignorant of how important rational judgment is. Some people mistakenly think that emotional people are stupid. In fact, only they know their cleverness.
They will also analyze whether the future of their relationship is reliable, and they will also understand how far they can go together for so long. They are very clear about the difficulties they face, and they are more or less aware of what kind of setbacks they will encounter. In the future,
they may have, there are so many without regrets, and there are so many regrets in the memories they may have.
However, they are willing to believe that there are not many complicated reasons here.
is willing, that is, willing.
So people who are too emotional are often particularly stubborn in key persistence. This stubbornness is a kind of persistence that only they themselves will understand. Even if they are scarred and even if they are not understood, they will persist.
until something is completely broken and broken into powder. When they can't catch it,
let go. At first, they were unwilling to give up, but they discovered that
is not not not letting go, but "no way to start."
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This society cannot accommodate those people with obvious weaknesses, even if these weaknesses are the embodiment of morality and quality.
as long as it has it, it will be used. Once it is used, it will be humiliated and trampled on.
This is not an alarmist statement, but a fact that really happens around us:
can tolerate a arrogant world, can not tolerate kindness,
can tolerate arrogance, but can not tolerate sincere gaze.
