1. First of all, the identity recognition of the strong. In any situation, I feel that I must be the one who can solve the problem. As Lincoln said: I will bear the responsibilities that people can bear; I can bear the responsibilities that people cannot bear. Boys have been watching Jin Yong since childhood. It is a kind of subtle influence of a strong man. To become a hero, you must be the one who has the ability to turn the tide.
2. Focus on solving problems and inseparable from complaints. Nine out of ten people who complain about it are losers. Those who achieve great things must be methodologists, not emotional venters.
3. Dare to change and do what you are afraid of. I am an introverted social phobia, and I can give speeches and socialize in order to accomplish things; I am a person who is focused on things, and I can focus on people when I succeed, and do everything that I don’t want or don’t want, just to achieve the ultimate goal. This kind of consciousness and behavior that actively breaks out of the comfort zone will definitely create a strong man who can do everything by practicing all kinds of skills.
4. While continuing to deepen one field for many years and accumulating professional strength, we consciously cultivate our own cooperative team, deliberately decentralize our power, step by step, and consciously force ourselves to enter higher-level but unfamiliar fields to complete further cognitive iterations.
5. Have extremely high work requirements and moral standards for yourself, but do not put the same requirements on the people around you. "Treat leniently to others and blame yourself strictly."
6. Strong and stable values are difficult to easily be influenced by the outside world. Even if you are pua, you will only be pua by people who are several times better than you, or willingly be influenced by a stronger aura.
7. Emotional stability, even if there are emotional ups and downs, people are generally difficult to detect, and they can quickly be self-consistent; with very little mental internal friction, you will always know to use the most critical points. Therefore, strength and weakness are often only between the front lines. When you think you are the king, the world has already made a way for you. A proud person can be saved, and a inferior person can be pills.
