An old saying goes: "What is the same in life? It should be like flying geese walking on the snow mud."
Most of the time, life does not have a fixed destination.
When a person constantly experiences people and things during the journey, he will naturally have a clear understanding of the real life.
Someone said: " People cannot step into the same river twice ."
The same is true for life. Only by seeing through the truth behind the world in life can you be calm.
Comprehension of the world, life will become more fulfilling; knowing life, the road of life will become more and more stable.
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There is no fixed way to live, learn to choose
Books must be chosen and read; people must be chosen and communicate; words must be chosen and listen; paths must be chosen and followed.
There are thousands of roads in life, and different choices will be different.
Life is not long, it is not short, understand the essence of life, and life has its own beautiful and prosperous road.
Sometimes, we feel that the direction of our life is very clear and the future is very good.
When we truly step into this path, we understand that choice is more important than fixed methods.
When we were young, we would try different choices, but at that time, we didn’t understand: when a person gradually got older, he realized that he had no choice.
After experiencing it, we can better understand the theater of life. Every choice is a different play. We can let ourselves perform according to the established process, or we can choose our favorite "program" to perform.
It doesn’t make much sense to stick to the rules. You have the courage to choose and have a clear conscience to your true heart. You can also perform a wonderful life drama.
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There is no straight line in life, learn to adapt
"History of the Song Dynasty·Biography of 15" says: "Things are not stagnant, principles are important to adapt."
flexibly is a good medicine. If you stick to the dead end, your life may easily slide into the bottom.
In reality, many people only want to achieve their goals in one step, but most of the time, life will not be smooth sailing. The more you want to get it right, the easier it is to get stuck in the slightest position and the whole person will become more stubborn.
You think that as long as you keep walking, there will be a day when the future is dark, but sometimes, we often walk into unknown dead ends and find it difficult to extricate ourselves.
Therefore, there are not many straight lines in life. Most people find the direction of life from the tortuous roads. Flexibility is the beacon on the tortuous roads and can guide us out of the maze of life.
Those who say that there are always shortcuts in life, be vigilant;
Those who want you to stick to one path in life, be careful;
The journey of life is very long, with light and darkness. When we walk into the dark road, there will be another road. Sometimes, knowing how to adapt will bring countless new roads to your life.
In life, you must have a point of innocence and two points of flexibility. You have both learning and flexibility. Life has its own brilliant time.
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There is no limit to life, learn to stick to
See through the suffering and smoothness of life, and you will also have a 70% or 80% understanding of life.
Some people often say that a person’s potential is infinite, and there are countless possibilities in life.
Xunzi In "Encouraging Learning", "Give up and give up, the rotten wood will not be broken. If you give up and don't give up, the metal and stone can be carved."
When we choose the right path for our lives, the spirit of perseverance becomes more valuable.
What's more, your own life path needs to be opened up by yourself. If a person does not have the courage to persevere, he can only regret it every day when he grows up.
"There is no road in the world. If more people walk, it becomes a road."
There is no fixed way in life. When we finally find the direction we are willing to work hard, we must have the courage to persevere. This persistence will make us thank ourselves in the future.
The road you choose may be everywhere, and the mountains and rivers are separated by, but there are always flowers and birds all over the mountains and fields to decorate your life.
As Qu Yuan said in "Li Sao ": " The road is long and arduous , I will search up and down."
Life is a practice. Only by persevering, can the road ahead have a bright picture.
The truth is easy, but difficult to practice. When a person truly understands these, his life will show a different color.
Floating and ups and downs are the norm in life. If we can understand these things, even if there are twists and turns and uneasiness in life, the future will eventually become more and more stable.
Source: Rufeng Jia
Author: Rufeng Jun · Heluo Jun
