What kind of people do in this world?
A kind person will naturally do kind things; a right and wrong person will naturally say things; a narrow-minded person will naturally do petty things.
people are not divided into classes, but the levels are different. The levels are not distinguished by status and money, but are more determined by a person's inner pattern and behavioral character.
The higher the level, the more people know how to control their lives, live a wonderful life, spend limited energy on serious things, and manage their lives in an orderly manner.
The lower the level, the more people like to waste time on irrelevant things, causing trouble to themselves and putting themselves into difficulties, and even more so, because their boredom will also bring harm and trouble to others.
The lower the level of people, the less ambitious they have, and waste all their great time on these three things.
The lower the level, the deeper the desire.
Maslow's law of demand says that human desires are unlimited, but demands are limited. In fact, life is not bitter, what is bitter is too much desire; life is not tired, what is tired is the empty soul.
One thought heaven, one thought hell, people with low levels are easily trapped by desires and will find it difficult to be liberated in their entire lives.
The lower the level, the more likely people to blindly compare with others, follow the crowd, and follow the crowd. When they see others have luxury cars, they will try their best to buy one; when others buy a big house, they will also change their own sets; when others wear famous brands, they will also save money and make a frugality... They build happiness on material enjoyment, not their inner needs. In fact, the more they compare, the less happy they are.
People with excessive desires live a very tiring and hard life, because they mistakenly regard desires as need, which makes them tired and fall deeper and deeper, because desires are hard to fill, people need the sun, snake hearts are not enough to swallow elephants, and material desires are endless.
Desire is too deep and will swallow a person. Greed is like a hidden demon, which will appear at any time to disturb your life. If you cannot control your greed yourself, you will be controlled by desire and let it mercy, thus losing yourself and it will be difficult to turn back.
Wang Mingyang said: To reduce one point of human desire is to obtain another point of the law of nature.
In the world, if you pursue fame and fortune too much, you will eventually be a waste of time, lose your happiness, lose your original heart, know how to be content, overcome desires, and return to reason, you can only gain true happiness, thus being simple and free and easy.
The lower the level, the more people like to talk about right and wrong.
Since ancient times, you cannot eat randomly and you cannot say randomly. Improper diet will affect your health; improper speech will not only hurt others, but will also bring disaster to yourself.
The lower the level of people, the more they like to spend time talking about right and wrong. Instead of paying attention to themselves, they prefer to spend time paying attention to other people's family affairs. They are keen on using rumors and gossip as topics all day long, talking about other people's privacy unscrupulously, saying irrelevantly to others, commenting on others, and proudly judging the traits they have learned.
However, everyone is an independent individual, and their own life is their own, and others' lives are their own. No matter how much energy you spend, it is useless. Life is limited. Instead of paying attention to the right and wrong of others at all times, it is better to pay more attention to your own growth, do your best to make your life better, and make your life less regrets.
When a person turns his energy and time from the outside world to paying attention to his own growth, he can have a broader life.
As the saying goes: Sitting in meditation always reflects on one’s own mistakes, and don’t talk about others’ mistakes in a casual conversation. Don’t always stare at others, and always talk about others with your mouth. Instead, think about your own life, go your own way, do your own things, and live your own life, so that you can truly perfect yourself.
The lower the level of people, the less they know how to be tolerant and generous.
Wang Xiaobo said in "The Silent Most": Splashing mouths, making great value evaluations for others, and the level is very low. In fact, a person with a low level will be revealed from other aspects even if he covers his mouth, such as doing things.
Born as a human being, you must grasp a certain scale when doing things. Moderate is beautiful, and excessive is ugly; moderation is blessing, excessive is misfortune, and you should not be too absolute in life. You must understand the principle of being able to forgive others and giving others a room for your work, which means leaving a way out for yourself.
The lower the level, the more people like to be petty and petty, only allow themselves to take advantage, not allow themselves to suffer losses, and be unreasonable; they have a glass heart, dare not touch or hurt, they will break when touched, and hurt when hurt, and then hold a grudge for life.
The lower the spiritual level, the narrower the spiritual boundaries, and they act arrogant everywhere. They like to magnify small things and say that they will not forgive others when they are reasonable, and they will dyingly argue when they are unreasonable. They live in their own small world, with narrow vision and small pattern, and like to care about small things and small mistakes. They cannot do big things in life and have no real friends in life.
The higher the level, the more people know how to respect others, don’t make things difficult for the other party, don’t set any restrictions, and treat everyone equally.
Mencius said: Those who love others will always love them; those who respect others will always respect them.
Those harmless little things in the world are not worth our waste of precious time and energy to worry about. If you insist on holding grudges and cannot learn to forgive, you can only let yourself suffer and let your heart be bound.
A person with a rich heart has a vast ocean in his heart. He will never change his due pattern because of a gravel. With a tolerant heart, he will tolerate trivial things in life and things that are difficult to tolerate in the world.
The journey of the Great Way is not to blame others. This is a kind of cultivation and a kind of wisdom.
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