" Hundred Years of Lonely " interprets loneliness: only loneliness in this world is eternal.
The secret to happiness is just a signing agreement with loneliness without losing dignity.
Life is like an isolated island. Loneliness is the norm of life, but it should not be the return of life.
is alone when he comes and is alone when he leaves. Only when you meet your colleagues by chance, you will be surprised, sad, confused, and you will know all kinds of tastes.
Many things people do in this life are fighting loneliness, such as trying to integrate into the crowd and maintain interpersonal relationships; striving to pursue the best love and join hands with it until old age; working hard to establish a place in society, and satisfying their presence.
People are independent, but they cannot do without cooperation with others when they succeed. On the road to success, you are not yourselves. Some people do not hesitate to hide their true selves in order to make themselves sociable.
Can you really be happy?
The answer is no. Even if the facts are cruel and we are unwilling to accept them, we will eventually lose to loneliness.
"Hundred Years of Solitude" Seven generations of the family, the first person will be tied to a tree, and the last person in the family will be eaten by ant .
The second generation of Colonel Rioriano Buendia, the decades of the magical "war" were also his lonely life.
He firmly believes that his life has an end, which has become his belief that he has never been injured in the rain of bullets.
He was deeply trapped in loneliness and no longer felt the omen. He returned to Magondo only wanted a little comfort in his long-standing memories.
The real experience of the past, after the irresistible passion of youth, is nothing to him now.
Sign an agreement with the lonely person without losing his dignity and live as decent as possible.
Speaking of this, you will inevitably think of a very popular topic in modern times: "Social terror".
Social terror, in collectivist culture, is always evaluated as "bad personality" and "unsociable". In fact, this is a prejudice. Social fear seems to be a weakness, but it is also the talent and advantages.
social fear will actively avoid consuming energy in social activities. They can think carefully about past and future events and have stronger insights.
This is not difficult to explain why many excellent writers and artists are socially terrified.
Writer Zhang Ailing is a typical social terror. For more than 20 years after her second husband passed away, Eileen Chang lived alone. In order not to let others find her, she had to move home many times in a year.
So, Zhang Ailing's cost is very simple, a TV, letters and a small amount of clothing.
What’s strange is that most of her homes are on the street, and the TV at home is often turned on. You can understand that she only listens to the sound. Zhang Ailing, who is isolated from others, is not isolated from the noise of the world.
In the downtown city, there must be a TV program. It is not difficult to see here that she may just be unwilling to communicate with others.
She kept talking about letters, but letters were not always returned in bans, and there were very few people who could interact with them.
Some people guessed that Zhang Ailing was poor, so she didn't like to be allowed to enter, but she still had a deposit of 10,000 yuan in her relics. Maybe Eileen Chang just likes loneliness in the spiritual world.
This makes it difficult for the outside world to clearly understand what happened in the last twenty years of Zhang Ailing's life.
Zhang Ailing’s talent is unique, but the words she leaves to people are intriguing.
Just like many absurd love stories in "Hundred Years of Solitude", I sigh and sigh at this romantic love, the love that was defeated by reality in my infinite desire cannot dissipate, but it cannot dissipate.
Seven generations of people in the century of loneliness face their lives in their own unique way, but they encounter the same ending: loneliness.
Life is like a unique, lonely, forgotten boat on the shore. Is it that when you dock, the past encounters and staying together is nothing but something outside of your body, and decades of life are just fleeting dreams.
The author of "Hundred Years of Solitude" does not want us to be lonely, but just let us recognize the essence of life and be with loneliness as our companion.
The best state in life is to accept loneliness and not deliberately cater to anything.
Of course, being a companion with loneliness must at least have your own preferences.
The first generation of Ursula of the family fell in love with her cousin and married him, worried that her close relatives would give birth to a child with a tail like an aunt, and would fall asleep every night in her own sleep.
Later, Ursula still gave birth to two men and one woman with her cousin. Buendia was tied to a tree by Ursula due to mental disorders. Speaking of this, in the first half of the fable, the first generation of people made the prediction that they were tied to the tree, and the last generation was swallowed by ants and realized at the end of the story.
Perhaps when Ursula refused to explore a new world with her husband, the tragedy of the entire family was doomed.
We are also afraid of stopping because of fear, and even refuse to accept new things. We are more willing to be protected by a sense of security in our comfort zone. How can this so-called sense of security be safe? It collapses or is just in an instant.
Only by open acceptance can we welcome new life, and the closed cycle of reincarnation is a hundred years of loneliness.
