1. Stay away from the place of right and wrong
participate less in chat activities and some unnecessary drinking and dinner parties, stay away from places where disputes are prone to cause trouble, go to a more peaceful place, and know how to purify your soul.
2. People who stay away from right and wrong
The old saying says: Those who are close to red are red and close to ink are black.
Those who spread rumors, say bad things about others in front of you, and provoke discord should stay away as soon as possible, and those who flatter you and only have interests in their hearts should also stay away as soon as possible.
3. If you don’t participate in other people’s affairs,
In society, if you meddle in other people’s affairs, it is easy to cause trouble. Sometimes when you help others kindly, others may not necessarily win your affection. In addition, no matter how beautiful the relationship is, you must know how to keep a distance. Without permission, don’t interfere with other people’s affairs, and don’t take the initiative to discuss other people’s affairs. Only by having distance can you discover more beauty.
4. Do less chores and trivial things at work
. At work, really has a lot of trivial things. You need to find an opportunity to let go as soon as possible, meddle in other people's business, and do your part well.
5. Reduce the trivial matters in life
Generally, you will encounter some trivial matters in life. These things will make our lives a mess and even make our lives lose the direction of our lives.
So, don’t be too obsessed with trivial matters in life, don’t be too concerned about the gains and losses in this regard. If you are too entangled in trivial matters in life, you will not see the beauty of the world.
6. Treat people and things sincerely
The old saying says: Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you.
Only when you treat people and things sincerely can others respond to you with a sincere attitude. If you treat others in a false way, others will also repay you with the same attitude. More importantly, you are sincere and don’t care too much about rewards. Just be comfortable yourself, know how to gain happiness, and let go of unhappiness.
7. Focus on your own life and work
In life and work, learn to automatically block others, and try to avoid those and things that disrupt your life and work. Do your own things and walk your own way. As for how others think, it is their own business and it has nothing to do with you. It is crucial to focus on yourself.
8. Don’t care about anyone
For those who look down on you, you should automatically block them. No one is more important than you. Those who are malicious, have ulterior motives, and despise themselves should immediately cut off their relationship. They are all borers in your life. The more you care about it, the more it will hurt you.
9. Don’t care about other people’s eyes and evaluations
Those evaluations that are not good to yourself learn to go into your left ear and out of your right ear, and don’t listen to other people’s malicious remarks. Everything others say is someone else’s business. Don’t care. The more you care about these people’s eyes and evaluations, the worse your mood will be.
10. Read more
reads can make people cultivate their body and mind and keep their hearts peaceful. In addition, reading is also an investment with the lowest cost, with no harm.
11. Don’t take things into yourself
Whether others are good or bad has nothing to do with you. Don’t take everything into yourself. The earth will still turn away from anyone. Your existence belongs only to yourself, not to anyone.
12. Don’t fantasize about
. Keep dreaming about what you have, which will make you very tired. Only by stopping your fantasy can you become relaxed and you can do things within your ability, such as doing housework.
13. Don’t force it on
Nowadays people are under pressure from all aspects. If you have troubles or worries, don’t force it on yourself. If you have troubles, you will easily get into physical problems. If you have troubles, learn to call your family or friends and tell them out. It is much easier than if you force it on yourself.
14. Take interpersonal relationships indifferently
wise people will take interpersonal relationships indifferently . Those unnecessary relationships are no longer maintained, making them optional. Don’t worry about them, you will become more and more peaceful and more relaxed.
15. Think less about the past
If you think too much about the past, you will have no time to think about the future. Indulging in the past will make you more and more dull and have no activity. So, think less about the unhappy things in the past and look forward to a better life in the future.
16. Don’t expect anyone
Don’t expect anything that hasn’t happened. Often, the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment. In addition, never has expectations for anyone, so that we will not be easily hurt. We must put all our goals and hopes on ourselves and make our own decisions in our lives.
17. Ensure good sleep quality
good sleep quality, sufficient sleep time is the key to the body's relaxation and rest. Therefore, you must ensure adequate sleep. A person with good sleep quality can gain a kind of inner peace than a person with poor sleep quality.
18. Stay away from negative energy
stay away from those people with full of negative energy. The emotions of negative energy are 180 degrees to the disadvantages, and always say things that make people feel uncomfortable and disturb people's emotions when they hear them, and negative energy can be contagious. Therefore, if you are more with positive energy, people with positive energy will make people optimistic and confident, and keep their hearts peaceful.
The above is my sharing today. If you bring inspiration and help, please give me a thumbs up. Thank you for your support. Let's work together~
Author: Zhen Xinwu
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